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Do you enjoy girls?

I know, silly question. But is it?

Most guys don’t really enjoy girls. Or they do, but only in certain situations. Like their bedrooms.

They look out into the sea of feminine beauty and see nothing but obstacles and barriers to their success.

You Mad Bro?

Some guys look at girls and actually get angry, as they imagine all their “failures” from the past, and project that into the future.

They’ve already “rejected” themselves before they even approach.

On the other hand, there are naturals. Are they naturals because of their success rate? Or is it something deeper.

Consider this.

When a natural looks out into the sea of girls, he sees massive potential for massive pleasure.

But this pleasure doesn’t just come in the bedroom.

Happiness On Every Level

This pleasure comes from flirting with them, talking to them, touching them, and sometimes even seducing them.

I’m sure you’ve heard of the concept, “detach from outcome,” right?

Some guys, (a lot of guys) misinterpret this. They see this as some kind of self-deceptive con to help them get to the prize, which is up in between her legs.

They see that as the ONLY desired outcome, and the “detach from outcome” is only a mind trick to keep them from getting nervous.

This is absolutely the wrong way to look at it.

What’s a better way?

Relax And Enjoy Yourself

Actually detach from outcome. Not as a mind trick, but as a way of life (at least when talking to girls).

The easiest way to “detach” from outcome is to simply not have an outcome.

Just see girls as a group of people, or an individual, to simply be enjoyed, no matter WHAT happens.

Here’s another one I’m sure you’ve heard: “The road is better than the inn.”

Which of course means that traveling to a destination is usually better than the destination, either metaphorically or real.

So forget about trying to get laid. Forget about getting her phone number. Forget about even getting her name.

All that WILL happen naturally, when you approach the situation naturally.

Just enjoy her. Let nature take it’s course.

One thing that will REALLY help is the mindset of a natural learner. Not only with girls, but with life.