Monthly Archives: May 2015

Should You Learn Fractionation?

There Are No Magic Bullets

Do Magic Bullets Even Exist?

There’s a lot of confusion about certain techniques in covert hypnosis as it applies to seduction. One of those is something called “fractionation.” This is a proven technique that shows up pretty much everywhere, and has been used very effectively in traditional hypnosis.

However, because it’s kind of confusing, and vague, some marketers have treated it like some magic bullet that can instantly get a girl ready to go. This is not really true. Not even close.

The truth about fractionation is that is one technique, among many, that can accelerate a process. But in order to use fractionation to accelerate the process, you’ve got to first be able to do the process. Fractionation is NOT a replacement for the process.

So, what IS the process? Talking to a girl, and getting her feeling those special feelings when she thinks about you. If you can do this during the first meeting, you’re doing pretty good.

Now, this is pretty vague. How do you talk to her and get her thinking those special feelings? There’s a million ways to do that. It depends on the girl. It depends on you. It depends on the location. It depends how you compare in her mind to the last five or ten goofs that have tried to pick her up.

In fact, there are so many variables that are always changing, there is simply NO WAY to come up with a memorized set of behavior patterns that will work. The ONLY way to develop the skills to get her feeling those good feelings is to simply talk to as many girls as you can, and try to get as many of them feeling those feelings as you can.

Naturally, you’ll fail most of the time.

But think of what human life on Earth would be like if any goof could memorize a bunch of techniques and then go out and get any girl dreaming of sex? The entire planet would be populated by single guys and single mothers who have no clue who the father is!

Luckily, this is not the case. Luckily, girls DO have certain criteria, conscious or not, for the guy they want to hook up with. And unless you meet this criteria, you aren’t going to get far.

Luckily, one of these criteria that’s VERY important is a guy who’s got really good social skills. And the only way to GET really good social skills is to get out there and be social.

You CANNOT learn social skills by studying techniques or memorizing patterns.

But the more you get out there and practice, the more fun you’ll have, and the more attractive you’ll become.

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Shine Your Light

Shine Your Light

Be An Example To Others

I saw this interesting question on some financial web site the other day.

It was one of those questions designed to seem simple, but with an unexpected answer. The idea being you’d click through to read more about their financial services.

The question was about interest rates, something people generally don’t know much about.

Some say this is on purpose, so bankers can take advantage of more people.

For example, one way to describe a loan is “renting money.” Meaning they give you money, then you give them the money back, plus interest. Since you’ve got to pay them every month, like you’d pay your rent, it’s basically the same concept.

Yet they don’t use this. I mean, if you borrow a pencil from your friend at school, you just give it back when you’re done. If you borrow a library book from the library, you give it back, there’s no cost.

Yet when we “borrow” money, we have to pay extra. Maybe those bankers from centuries ago did this on purpose!

I’m sure you’ve heard that expression that we aren’t physical beings having a spiritual experience, but we are spiritual beings having a physical experience.

We are eternal, but we are in our bodies for only a blip of a split second.

Why?

Maybe we’re “borrowing” our bodies, or the matter that makes them up, from the rest of the universe.

Are we here just to have fun? Or do we have a larger purpose?

Is it a free ride, or do we need to “pay rent?”

If so, to who?

Many different religions teach us that our higher purpose is to serve others.

Reminds me of the story of the talents, from the New Testament.

To those who are given much, much is expected.

But what does this mean? What is expected of us? How can we serve others the best?

Maybe by figuring out how to maximize our skills, so we can participate in society by helping to create something that will best serve the most people.

After all, you’ve got a great light within you. Are you going to keep it hidden, or shine it so all can see?

Not only shine it, but make it as bright as you can.

How will you do that?

Maybe that’s the purpose of life itself. To not only shine your light for all to see, but spend your precious little time here maximizing it’s brightness.

Of course, this can be frightening. Not everybody is interested in our light. The world’s got plenty of problems.

But then again, maybe it wouldn’t if everybody would simply shine their lights.

Why not set an example?

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You Are Not A Snowflake

Use Your Uniqueness As Strengths, Not Weaknesses

Follow The Same Path Of Success

One of the BIGGEST mistakes you can make in life is to fully believe or accept the idea of, “My case is different.”

Everybody’s been taught that they are special. They are unique. There’s nobody else like them, and there will never be another person like them. Ever.

Just like a snowflake.

No two are the same. This both true and false. To the extent you know the difference, you will be wildly successful. To the extent you don’t, you’ll spend life in emotional agony, and never know why.

Now, to start off with, let’s address the snowflake is unique myth. In reality, there are two snowflakes that WILL be the same, statistically speaking. But that’s now what we’re talking about.

Let’s just assume that the physical appearance of every single snowflake that ever was, and ever will be is different. As a metaphor if nothing else.

But that doesn’t mean that all snowflakes are created differently. That doesn’t mean that they don’t follow the same laws of physics. That doesn’t mean they’ll all eventually melt, turn into water, and get all their snowflake molecules (which is WATER, btw) mixed back in with everything else.

So yea, they’re all different. But they’re also all the same.

Which means you, as a human, are the same and different than everybody else.

You have the same basic desires. You face the same basic obstacles. You face the same basic limitations.

It’s only when you start to use your own unique qualities as a reason you CANNOT overcome the same obstacles everybody else has to overcome, is it GAME OVER.

To the extent you believe you CAN overcome ANY obstacle, if merely because somebody else did, then you will ALWAYS eventually be successful.

Here’s an example. Every guy would like a girl. Usually a girl that’s pretty, nice, friendly, and intelligent.

And every guy also has a bunch of reasons why they think they CAN’T get that girl.

Every. Single. Guy.

The ones that get the girl, don’t listen to their own excuses. The ones that don’t, do.

Once I knew this doctor. Smart guy. Good looking guy. Rich guy. Friendly guy. But he was also about 5’5″.

He had a rock solid belief, that no “quality girls” would date short guys. This was his REASON for thinking that he was EXCUSED from not facing the same obstacles every other guy faces.

Namely, trying and getting rejected and trying again. Over and over until you finally get the girl you want.

Because he was TOO AFRAID to even try, he created what he thought was a REASON to not try.

He thought HE WAS DIFFERENT. Every single piece of evidence he saw to the contrary, he kept telling himself the same lie. “Yea, but I’m different.”

If you hear yourself telling yourself this, it’s a lie. Which is good news. Because the single most powerful thing you can do that will SKYROCKET your success with women is to STOP BELIEVING YOUR OWN LIES.

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Fear Killing Mind Tricks

Don't Constrain Yourself With Time

Detach From Time

Most of our fears never come true.

Of course, this nifty truism doesn’t keep those imaginary fears from keeping us stuck!

One thing that can help is some mental “timeline” tricks.

For example, it’s pretty easy to get stuck in the “here and now” when thinking about most stuff.

But as humans, (and not instinct-driven animals) it’s our job to use our brains to our highest capacity.

One way to do that is look at things from different viewpoints, from a time perspective.

For example, it can help to think beyond a time in the future when something particularly nerve wracking is coming up. If you’ve got an important meeting Friday afternoon, for example, you can lessen the anxiety by focusing on what kind of delicious meal you’ll be eating Saturday night.

If you don’t have enough juice left to do ten more sit-ups, you might imagine yourself a month or two in the future when all the sexy people are admiring your six pack.

If you just can’t study for one more second, imagining the good feeling when you ace your exams may give you the extra push you need.

Another way to lessen the effect of our “imaginary” fears is to simply embrace them. Close your eyes, and imagine the worst possible thing that you can imagine. Then fully accept it. Embrace it. Feel all those feelings that would happen, and the energy underneath them.

Then imagine what you’d do next, and then after that, and after that.

If you do this enough, you can lessen any inhibitions that the fear creates.

While this is pretty good for specific fears, like asking for a raise, or asking for a phone number, here’s a way to “go meta.”

Do this when you’ve got some alone time, to sit and contemplate.

Take a deep breath, and close your eyes.

Then imagine the most horrible thing you can, from the perspective of where you are in your life. Your boss fires you, you become homeless, your true love leaves you, whatever.

Don’t worry, this is just a quick mind experiment!

Then fully embrace that situation. 

Then take a step back, and instead of looking at things a couple years down the road, look at things from the perspective of your highest, most eternal self.

That self that exists beyond time, beyond space, beyond the physical body you’re currently occupying.

See this “horrible disaster” as one small speck of experience in a sea of infinite possibility. Of infinite expanding and knowing.

Kind of weird (and potentially scary) the first couple of times, but if you practice a few times a week, for only a couple minutes each time, you may notice some pretty cool changes in your life.

More peace, less fear, more emotional openness.

Give it a try.

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How To Get The Best Of Both Worlds

Long Range Thinking

Long Term Thinking For Short Term Success

In the world of running, there’s fast twitch muscle fibers, and slow twitch muscle fibers. This pretty much determines if you are better at long distance running, or sprinting. (Or if you’re like me with NO twitch muscle fibers, lol).

Meaning if you are naturally fast twitch, you’d be a pretty good sprinter. If you are really low twitch, you’d be a good long distance runner.

But here’s the thing. You can turn a fast twitch muscle into a slow twitch, but not the other way around. Meaning a natural sprinter, with proper training, can turn into a decent long distance runner. But a natural long distance runner can only go so fast in a sprint, you matter HOW hard they train.

Most guys, if they study ANY aspect of game, eventually face a decision. Should you pursue multiple, short term relationships, or should you look for that ONE special girl.

Some choose out of anger, or hate, or pain, after getting burned. They fell in love, got their heart broken, and will forever keep themselves protected from further pain by staying ONLY in short term relationships with low quality women.

Some guys just like the idea of hitting it with strangers.

However, keep something in mind. If you’ve told yourself that you want to be a player now, and settle down later, you may run into trouble.

Game is similar to muscle fibers. You can turn a monogamist into a player, but it’s tough to turn a player into a monogamist.

But, if you have some patience, and a long view, there IS a way to get the best of both worlds.

First, you’ll need to make the serious decision that one day, you DO want to settle down with Miss Right.

Next, you’ll have to come up with some pretty tight criteria of what Miss Right is like.

Then you’ve got to have the courage to go out and meet as many girls as possible, in your quest for her.

Make no mistake, this is incredible difficult. It’s something most guys are simply not capable of doing. Most guys (and most people for that matter) simply take what they can get, call it good, and hope everything works out.

Because the right relationship with the right woman can be so INCREDIBLY FANTASTIC, and the opposite so utterly horrible, do you REALLY want to leave that up to chance?

Now, how does that “best of both worlds” part work?

In the process of meeting as many girls as you can to find Miss Right, you will meet a lot of girls (duh).

A lot of girls who will voluntarily spin your propeller in ways you’ve never DREAMED of!

So long as you keep your sights set on the end prize (You and Miss Right) and stay honest with yourself and what you’re after, the PATH to that inevitable success will be pretty fun.


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The Ultimate Tool To Beat All Others

Brains!

Maximize Your Brain

Last weekend I went out and my next door neighbor had this guy doing some work on his house.

He had all his tools out, leaning up against the house, his truck, pretty much everywhere.

I guess the guy was doing some kind of big renovation or something.

I saw this one tool that looked completely foreign. It was a combination of a couple of familiar tools, but as they were put together I couldn’t fathom what they were used for.

I couldn’t get my mind off that the rest of the day.

When you think of all the stuff you can do today, that you couldn’t do just a year or so ago, it’s actually pretty amazing.

Not just the things you can do, but the tools you can use. Humans use tools without even thinking about them. But pretty much any gadget that you can think of, any device that is used for any purpose is some kind of tool.

Most tools are simple in concept, but pretty complicated in design. Your car gets you from point A to point B, but if you had to explain every part in detail, most of us would come up pretty short.

This is kind of easy to understand, as all tools are really revisions of previous tools. Things that were added to give more functionality.

A car still gets us from point A to point B as its primary function, but the cars today are a kajillion times more complicated than the cars from the fifties.

And they tell us that within the next couple of years, we’ll have self driving cars in some U.S. cities.

But there’s one tool that is extremely complicated in function AND extremely complicated in design.

This tool is so complicated that it is continuously updating itself, year after year. Being able to do more things, learn more things, use more things.

This “tool,” of course is your brain. You. Your mind-body system that is capable of more.

No matter HOW MUCH you can do now, you can do more. No matter how much you know now, you can learn more. No matter how much you’ve already created, you can create more. (And if you come back and read that sentence ten years from now it’s still true.)

Remember the story of the two guys who had the tree chopping contest? They both started off chopping trees with their axes. One guy would stop every hour, for five minutes.

At first, this allowed his competition to get ahead. But after a few hours, the once-an-hour guy started to take the lead.

See, he stopped every hour not to rest, but to sharpen his axe. Keeping your tool in tip top shape is a sure way to blow away the competition.

Even if the competition is your present self vs. your future self.

How do you take care of your most valuable tool?

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Overcome All Frame Tests

Deep Self Confidence Is The Answer

Self Confidence Is The Key

There’s been a lot written about how to overcome “shit tests.”

These are tests that are designed to let her know, on a deep unconscious level, that you can’t be rattled. That you have an incredible strength of character and maximum levels of self confidence. If you’re doing well in the early parts of the conversation, and she throws out some of these tests, it’s actually a good thing.

She wants you to pass, because she’s interested so far. She wouldn’t throw them out unless she was. It’s also a function of her subconscious, much more than her conscious. It’s not like she chooses to do them like she’s sitting there playing a game of chess with you.

Without getting into the linguistic details, the easiest way to overcome them is to show her you aren’t bothered in the least. Say something funny about them, agree with them, playfully flip them around, and then just keep on talking about whatever you were talking about.

There are two very general, and very POWERFUL ways of overcoming these with ease. Or building up your ability to overcome them.

One is to simply get out there and get as many as you can. Whether or not you pass them isn’t the strategy. Just getting them is. Then later on, take some time and think of how you COULD have responded, that would show you weren’t rattled, and would allow you to keep the frame.

This will build up your memory of all kinds of different situations, so you start to overcome more naturally. This requires you fully understand, on a deep level, that there are PLENTY of girls out there, and so long as are focused on women in general, you’ll do fine. If you start to focus on one WOMAN, that’s when you run into trouble. Since every single conversation with every single WOMAN is different, it’s pointless to try and reverse engineer every potential obstacle before it comes up.

The second way to overcome these tests is to develop such solid, massive self confidence that they REALLY DON’T bother you at all.

When you think about it, the entire reason guys spend so much time trying to overcome them is that they really DO bother them.

Think about this from a sales objection standpoint. If you had a product, and you had to convince people to buy it, you would be worried about, and would take a lot of time practicing overcoming various objections.

But what if you had a product that was so high quality, and so popular you didn’t need to do ANY selling? All you had to do was to open the shop, and sit back and watch people line up?

What if your product was so popular you had to kick people out of your store who misbehaved? (No soup for you!)

That’s the kind of self confidence and depth of experience that will make ALL TESTS irrelevant.

How do you get such confidence? Start talking to girls. Start becoming social. Get a really deep appreciation and understanding that the world is filled with people.

So much so that if anybody, anywhere gives you any kind of test, that’s THEIR problem, not yours.

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How To Become Familiar With The Unknown 

You That You've Always Got It No Matter What

Trust Yourself On A Deep Level

Once I was out driving around an unfamiliar part of town, in a city I’d been in only a few days.

I’d taken wrong turn, and wasn’t really paying attention to where I was going until I realized I didn’t really know where I was.

Then when I got back on track, I noticed something kind of interesting.

The “familiar” buildings and landmarks looked pretty much the same as the ones when I was lost.

(Obviously, lol).

I recalled a few days ago when I’d gotten into town, when those now familiar buildings and landmarks were strange.

Same external environment, completely different internal state.

This happens quite a bit. You walk into a party, and don’t know anybody. So you feel strange, withdrawn, a little nervous lately.

But if you walked into the same party, and saw maybe three or four familiar faces spread out amongst a crowd of strangers, you’d feel totally different. Excited. Happy. Outgoing.

Most of us think that we need to take time to “get used to” our environment. To wait until we get the lay of the land, so to speak, until we feel comfortable.

But what if you could feel comfortable right away, even in strange situations?

One of the hallmarks of charismatic and magnetic people is that they show up anywhere, any time, and feel totally comfortable and at home.

They walk into a party, and even though they don’t know ANYBODY, they have enough experience meeting and talking to strangers, AND a strong enough belief in themselves, that they KNOW that they are going to have a good time.

They KNOW they are going to meet some interesting people, find out some interesting stories and share some interesting experiences.

All within that first glance across a room filled with strangers.

What’s their secret?

Most of us feel comfortable with people that we know.

Charismatic folks feel comfortable because they know people.

So do you. 

We all have the same fears, anxieties, worries. We also share a lot of the same strengths, hopes, and desires.

We’re just waiting for somebody courageous enough to make that first connection.

Usually, we all sit around and wait for it to happen on its own. Which is pretty slowly.

But when you develop that unshakeable trust that comes from a deep inner knowledge of your true power, it will happen a lot more quickly.

People will notice something about you. You’ll notice something about people.

Something familiar, exciting and wonderful.

Just waiting to be discovered.

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Easy Day Game Approach Strategy

Approach Girls Anywhere Any Time

Easy Confidence Builder

Here’s an exercise you can do that will significantly boost your confidence, and when done correctly will pretty much guarantee you WON’T get shot down when you approach.

It’s not as easy as it sounds, so you may need a few tries before you get the hang of it.

It requires that you purposely keep your movements slow. The sign of a true confident person is slow and measured movements, not eyes or body parts darting around.

Anyhow, here’s what you do. It’s a good idea if you and your “target” are both stationary, and about 5 meters or more apart, but not more than 10 or 15. You need to read each others facial expressions.

Find somebody interesting, and look at them. Don’t stare, just look. When they notice you looking, hold eye contact. Don’t stare. Stay relaxed. Hold eye contact and within about three or four seconds, let a smile slowly build on your face. A relaxed, kind smile. Not a lecherous or predatory one. Just a relaxed smile to match your relaxed face that says, “I enjoy looking at you.”

If she smiles, looks away and then looks back, that’s about as clear a sign as you’ll EVER get that she’s interested, and she wants you to approach her.

Of course, how you approach, and what you say when you do will have an impact on what happens next. Nothing is guaranteed. But if you can be relaxed and confident when you approach, and say something simple like, “Hi, I noticed you from over there and I wanted to meet you. My name’s…” and then introduce yourself, you’ll be almost guaranteed to get a decent conversation.

(Just make sure you don’t have garlic breath or something!)

If you’re having trouble with approaches, this is a GREAT way to build up your confidence. Don’t worry about number closing or anything. Just exchange a few words, smile and say, “Well I enjoyed meeting you. I hope I see you around.” And then leave it at that.

It will only take you a few times doing this to realize she WANTS you to get her number. Then when you get to that stage, you’ll be collecting HIGH QUALITY numbers from girls who are genuinely interested in you. Not girls who give you their number just to get rid of you.

This will build your confidence, get you some decent numbers, and quickly take your day game to levels most guys never get to.

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Which Super Conscious Mind?

Kangaroos Know All About Hypnosis

What Do Kangaroos Know About Hypnosis?

One of the cool things about the Milton Model is ambiguity.

This is when you’ve got a few vague words, and you aren’t sure what they mean.

One of the specific patterns is called the “lack of referential index.”

Usually this involves the playful use of pronouns. A pronoun (he, she, they) is usually used after a proper noun is used (Bob, My Uncle, The Purple Kangaroo With a Penguin in his Pouch.)

For example, if I say, “The kangaroo looked at me and then he said, “dude!”

It’s clear that the “he” refers to the kangaroo.

But what if I said this:

“I was fishing with my brother, his friend, and this kangaroo. Then he looked at me and told me that learning hypnosis is pretty easy.”

In this case the, “he” is unclear. 

Is it my brother? His friend? The kangaroo?

But while you’re brain is trying to figure out which “he” said “learning hypnosis is easy” you keep focusing on the “learning hypnosis is easy.” Which means you’ll start to believe that it’s true.

This is how you can leverage an idea by using the “lack of referential index pattern.”

Here’s another way, but on a broader, more “meta” scale.

What is meant by the “super conscious brain?”

Is it the “collective unconscious” that Jung referred to, which is basically a whole bunch of different and unconnected unconscious minds, that are all very similar?

Or is it the Huna style, which is this one brain in the sky (or in some other dimension) that we are all plugged into?

Or is it really just one big brain that we aren’t just plugged into, but are all manifestations of?

Luckily, it doesn’t matter. Just like the “he said learning hypnosis is easy” sentence, the real “meat” of the sentence is not who the particular “he” is, but the idea that learning hypnosis is easy.

And your own personal belief on the exact nature of the Super Conscious (the three of the proposed definitions above or your own) doesn’t really matter.

What matters is that you realize that YOU are much more than YOU. Whether you believe that means your raw potential as a biological human entity, or your metaphysical and infinite “being-ness” as connected to the Super Conscious.

So long as you make it a point, an intention, a goal, a daily practice, of tapping into that Super Conscious, whatever and however you believe it to be.

How do you do that?

Well, it’s not on TV. It’s not on your iPhone. It’s not down at the mall. (Well it is, but access is kind of difficult!)

The easiest access, which you already know, is through your own inner mind. Deep within contemplation, waiting  between the thoughts you are always thinking.

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