Earn Your Pleasure
As I did, I’d always play “Helter Skelter,” by the Beatles, in my mind.
Especially the first part, which goes:
“When I get to the bottom I go back to the top of the slide
where I stop and I turn and I go for a ride
till I get to the bottom and I see you again…
Yea yea yea…”
I love going up, and I also loved going down. But I also love being up on top, especially if was a particularly good hill with a particularly good view.
Some of my friends would like riding on long, flat spaces. I thought that was pretty boring.
It was easy, as you didn’t have any hills. But you also didn’t get the views, nor the massive speeds you got riding back down.
The fastest I ever clocked was 53 mph, just coasting down this big long hills.
It’s hard to separate out best part, in my mind. All three (the climb, the view, and the ride back down) all have their unique pleasures.
There’s also these trips you can take in famous places, where they haul you and your bike up to the top of a mountain and then let you coast back down. Usually places like Hawaii or Costa Rica or other Island type resort spots with high hills.
I went on a canoe trip like that once. They drove us up river, and then let us ride the current back down for a few days.
It didn’t take much work, so we just kind of relaxed and enjoyed the ride.
(and drank lots of alcohol!)
Now, that can be fun from time to time, but it’s also pretty boring. Since you didn’t really put in any effort, there’s not much enjoyment you can get out of it.
If you’ve got kids or know anybody that’s got kids, then you know it’s not such a great idea to simply give them whatever the want without the necessary feeling of “earning it,” especially as they get older.
This can create some pretty spoiled kids. (A lot of famous people like that these days…)
What about you? What kind of life do you envision?
A flat, stable ride that’s safe, easy and boring?
Somebody to do all the work, while you get the benefits?
Or the ability to do the work, enjoy the view, AND the ride down?
And then, as Paul screamed, “go back to the top of the slide”?
Your life, your choice.
If you want it safe, it’s easy, but limited.
If you want somebody to do all the work, it’s pretty boring.
But if you want to put in the effort, your life belongs to you. And you’ll get much, much more.
What do YOU want?