Take Control Of Your Life
Politicians have known this for thousands of years. If you convince a whole group of people that their problems are not their fault, they’ll eagerly give you their votes.
Trouble is, once you get into the “blame game” you voluntarily give up all your power and potential.
Usually without realizing it.
Why?
When you blame others, or even blame things like your genetics or upbringing or neighborhood or the economy, what you’re saying is you are completely dependent on those “things” for your success.
Which means it’s no longer up to you. It’s up to somebody else (real or imagined) to give you what you want.
Now, this may indeed happen. On the other hand, it may not.
The sad truth is that most of humanity are “waiting for somebody” to give them what they want.
I know it seems unfair and even scary to “take responsibility” for your life, but if you want to truly succeed beyond the vast sea of mediocrity, that’s precisely what you’ve got to do.
Here’s something else to consider.
Most of us start life with the same set of skills. Then it’s our job to learn what we need to learn, to get what we need to get.
Those that aren’t afraid to take uncertain action, and continue to learn and improve themselves, regardless of the outcome, generally do pretty well in life.
The truth is that life is a journey. It doesn’t end until you take that long dirt nap.
Along the way you’ll succeed, fail, find magic, start and stop again and again and again.
The only difference between people that fail and people that succeed is what they believe about themselves.
People that succeed generally look out into the world and think things like, “I wonder what will happen if I try this? Who knows, maybe something good!”
While people who fail, don’t really fail, they just never get started. They usually think things like, “Yea, but what if it doesn’t work? I’d better wait for a safer opportunity.”
The truth is we all live in the same world, surrounded by the same people, and the same opportunities.
Are you ready to take advantage of them?
Are you ready to try something, just to see what happens?