Release Your Anger
They think they “deserve” something, and when they don’t get it, they throw a hissy fit.
They imagine that since they’ve done some kind of “personal improvement” work they somehow “deserve” to get the good stuff.
This is a common misconception both in seduction, AND in economics.
I remember once, a long time ago, I went down to my local barber to get my usual summer buzz cut. Only he had shut down. So I had to go find another place. I came across this “Salon” and asked how much.
She told me an incredibly huge price, and I asked her why hers was so expensive, when my usual guy only charged $5.
She told me she’d studied hair cutting in Europe (like they have different hair there or something) and she’d been to all the exclusive hair cutting schools.
I didn’t say this, but I was thinking that I really didn’t care where she’d studied, I only wanted a buzz cut, and I was only willing to pay $5. Maybe $6, but that was about it.
Many people believe they “deserve” something simply because they put in some “work.”
Nobody Gets A Free Ride
Well, I hate to break the news to you, but nobody owes you squat.
The ONLY time you will EVER get ANYTHING from ANYBODY is when they want to give it to you, for their own reasons.
And this usually involves THEM getting something from YOU that they VALUE.
You only GET what you are willing to GIVE.
Not what you THINK you deserve.
This is a tough pill to swallow. Not only for guys, but for anybody who has spent any amount of time doing anything (like studying, building, investing, creating) only to find out that what they’ve got STILL isn’t valued very much by others.
But here’s the GOOD NEWS.
There’s a much EASIER way to give her what she wants, so you can get what you want.
Instead of spending all kinds of time, money and effort in the gym, or the department store, or the bling store, just walk up, and talk to her.
Find out what she likes. Find out what spins her propellers.
Talk to her in a way that will get her feeling those emotions. Listen to what she says, and frame your message in a way that she’ll enjoy hearing.
Ditch the entitlement mentality, and go straigh to the source.