Are You Riding Training Wheels?
To be sure, there’s no shortage of procedures, methods, sequences of events, etc.
And for some guys, these work pretty good. They can keep you from blowing it, stepping on your toes, etc.
Like one “rule” that many guys follow is to NEVER say the “L” word until she does.
Now, this may not be such a good thing, especially if SHE’S following the same rule.
But it certainly IS a good thing to keep in mind when you’ve only been on a few dates. To be sure, if you guys have been together for a while, and you stare deeply into each others eyes, and you’re feeling it, and you KNOW that she’s feeling it, it’s not such a big deal.
Clearly, sticking TOO MUCH to the rules can get you blown out.
I remember watching some TV show about a high school basketball team. The coach had this really complicated, drawn out play, where the ball was supposed to be passed around a certain number of times.
Only the first player to get the ball drove right to the rim and scored a quick two.
The coach asked him what happened, and the player looked at him and said, “I know coach, but he gave me the lane, so I took it.”
The coach didn’t have a comeback. When your opponent is giving you an opening, you take it. No matter WHAT your “plan” or set of “rules” is.
Strike Whenever The Iron Is Hot
But think of them as “training wheels.” Wait three seconds before approaching. Don’t call within 48 hours. Don’t text more than once a day. Don’t text her back within three minutes. Always try kino before number closing.
Whatever.
But when she gives you the lane, you’d better take it!
How will you know?
This is perhaps the biggest secret of natural game. Natural “game” isn’t really that different from yours.
It’s just being SUPER attuned to how she is responding. All the micromovements, pupil dilations, slight changes in skin color and how much blood is or isn’t in her lips.
All of this hits in a big, unconscious wave, and gives them that “instinct” that tells them whether or not to push forward, or pull back.
This ability will get you MUCH more action than any memorized set of patterns, or any sequence of events.
And the real secret is that once you get out of your head, you’ll see these signals EVERY WHERE.
Meaning you’ll finally get inside that mythical “secret society” where all is revealed.
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