Everybody Is Worthwhile

You know that old saying, don’t miss the forest for the trees?

What does that really mean?

It means to look at the big picture. The HUGE forest, filled with all kinds of stuff, can be missed if you stare at one tree.

How does this apply to getting girls? Think of that ONE GIRL you are talking to as a tree.

More Than You Think

Most guys quickly forget there’s a HUGE FOREST out there, filled with girls, many much, much better than the one you’re talking to.

Now, most guys understand this, at least on one level. Meaning it sounds a bit like the “other fish in the sea” argument.

Or very similar to the “getting girls is a numbers game” argument, where if you keep number closing, you’ll find those magic few who dig you in the right way.

That is certainly true, but it’s missing a HUGE part of the puzzle.

If you see every girl as one “number” in a huge “numbers game” you’re missing out on a LOT.

Tons Of Good Stuff In The Middle

You’ll see her in either two ways, “pass” or “fail.” She accepts you, or she rejects you.

Kind of like cold calling. You spit out very same ten second sales pitch a hundred times a day, and hopefully get a couple sales.

This is EXTREMELY LIMITING when it comes to girls.

Why?

Because each and every girl you interact with can make you BETTER. Can make you MORE CONFIDENT. And most importantly, can make you MORE ATTRACTIVE.

Every Experience Gives You More Experience

Ever interaction you have with a girl, conscious or not, verbal or non-verbal, goes into your HUGE and growing database of females.

And every time you look at a NEW girl, your subconscious IMMEDIATELY calls up all other female experiences, and comes back with a feeling. Anxiety, confidence, excitement, positive expectation, relaxed enjoyment, all of these are possible.

And all are dependent on your collective experience with girls.

So no matter WHAT HAPPENS when you talk to her, you CAN build up your experience so next time is more fun, and more enjoyable.

This does require that you ditch that “pass / fail” model, and see each girl REGARDLESS of what happens as an experience to be enjoyed.

Do this, and you’ll be a natural in no time.

Especially when you turn on your natural learner, which will help program your subconscious in the best way possible.