Trust Yourself On A Deep Level
I’d taken wrong turn, and wasn’t really paying attention to where I was going until I realized I didn’t really know where I was.
Then when I got back on track, I noticed something kind of interesting.
The “familiar” buildings and landmarks looked pretty much the same as the ones when I was lost.
(Obviously, lol).
I recalled a few days ago when I’d gotten into town, when those now familiar buildings and landmarks were strange.
Same external environment, completely different internal state.
This happens quite a bit. You walk into a party, and don’t know anybody. So you feel strange, withdrawn, a little nervous lately.
But if you walked into the same party, and saw maybe three or four familiar faces spread out amongst a crowd of strangers, you’d feel totally different. Excited. Happy. Outgoing.
Most of us think that we need to take time to “get used to” our environment. To wait until we get the lay of the land, so to speak, until we feel comfortable.
But what if you could feel comfortable right away, even in strange situations?
One of the hallmarks of charismatic and magnetic people is that they show up anywhere, any time, and feel totally comfortable and at home.
They walk into a party, and even though they don’t know ANYBODY, they have enough experience meeting and talking to strangers, AND a strong enough belief in themselves, that they KNOW that they are going to have a good time.
They KNOW they are going to meet some interesting people, find out some interesting stories and share some interesting experiences.
All within that first glance across a room filled with strangers.
What’s their secret?
Most of us feel comfortable with people that we know.
Charismatic folks feel comfortable because they know people.
So do you.
We all have the same fears, anxieties, worries. We also share a lot of the same strengths, hopes, and desires.
We’re just waiting for somebody courageous enough to make that first connection.
Usually, we all sit around and wait for it to happen on its own. Which is pretty slowly.
But when you develop that unshakeable trust that comes from a deep inner knowledge of your true power, it will happen a lot more quickly.
People will notice something about you. You’ll notice something about people.
Something familiar, exciting and wonderful.
Just waiting to be discovered.