The Supremes Know What’s Up
That’s what one member of the supreme court said many years ago when trying to define “pornography.”
Many things are like that. We’re hard pressed to define them, but we certainly know it when we see it.
Some of these are subjective, some of these are objective.
Taste in food is more on the subjective side. You can’t really describe what “delicious” means to you, but you certainly know it when you taste it. And everybody has their own unique classifications of delicious.
Beauty leans more on the objective side. Most people would agree that certain paintings, landscapes, or yes, even people, are beautiful, while others are not.
Charisma and social magnetism are like that as well. It’s really hard to define what it is, without describing the feeling that comes from seeing somebody that is incredibly charismatic and magnetic.
Tale From The Temple
We were all in this big room, kind of doing our own thing, and this “guy” came walking in. All of us stopped what we were doing, and turned to look at this “guy.”
He had a certain “energy” about him. He was tall, good looking, and had pretty good posture. His movements were slow and purposeful. There didn’t seem to be any fear or anxiety or worry. Like he knew where he was going and was very aware of his surroundings, including all the people that were covertly watching his every step.
Like he felt totally comfortable in his own skin, totally at home wherever he was. As if it was the most important place on Earth or event in time. Total focus, presence and congruence.
As he got closer, I noticed he was wearing a name tag. Turned out he was the mayor. A mayor of a town famous for it’s ultra rich people.
Now, did he have charisma because he was mayor, or was he mayor because of his charisma?
I suspect it was both. Certainly, being in a position of power and surrounded by people who recognize that power will certainly give you a confidence boost.
But you can’t get there unless you’ve got the confidence to begin with.
Many people assume that having such massive charisma and magnetism is like being born tall or super athletic. You’ve either got it or you don’t.
They’re wrong.
You CAN build in that confidence, that charisma. So YOU can be the one walking in the room and turning heads.
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