The idea of resonance has always been a favorite of mine.
Even as a kid, when I didn’t know what it was.
Me and my friends learned how to shake street signs.
If you push it back and forth at the right frequency, you can get some pretty huge oscillations.
Much bigger than you’d be able to push on your own.
Being a kid and leveraging some principle of science to create an effect seemingly impossible is pretty cool.
The same happens when people “click” with one another.
Most of the time we stumble through life, just trying randomly.
So when that “click” does happen, it’s extra special.
Because it’s “scarce” it seems to be more valuable than it really is.
Scarcity does that.
But this presents a problem, one we really don’t realize.
Because we perceive those situations (where we “click” with others) as “scarce” we tend to hang onto them LONGER than we should.
Luckily, this won’t happen once we realize that feeling of “scarcity” is only in our mind.
Once you learn how to CREATE that “click” feeling, the scarcity goes away.
And will make those “click” situations MUCH BETTER.
Normally, when we start to “click” with somebody we are both worried and ecstatic at the same time.
Happy it’s happening, but worried because it’s scarce.
And scarce things tend to stay that way.
So not only do we hang on for dear life, we tend to do things not to ENHANCE that “click” feeling, but protect it.
We don’t want to ruin a good thing.
But once you learn how to create that click feeling in a majority of the people you interact with, a couple of things will happen.
One is because they won’t be scarce, you can relax and enjoy them.
Two is because you’ll be relaxing and enjoying the situation, the other person will “resonate” with you.
This is what people do.
We vibe with one another.
If YOU are nervous, so will the other person.
IF you are relaxed and enjoying yourself, so will the other person.
This requires that you stop HOPING it will happen, and learn how to MAKE it happen.
Once you do, you’ll have a skill few people even know exist.
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