If she says “no,” to whatever you’re suggesting, there’s not much that feels worse. Especially if it happens in front of your friends or her friends.
This is one of the main reasons guys like to hunt in packs. It lessens the sting of rejection to a considerable degree.
But here’s something to consider. It takes a lot of time and planning to get together a group of guys to go “hunting.” And anyplace a group of guys goes to pick up girls, all the girls will KNOW they are there to hit on them.
And if you take some time to inventory all the happy couples in your life, they didn’t likely meet at some meet market.
They met through friends, or at somebody’s wedding, or sitting next to each other in class.
Places where people usually DON’T go to pick up.
Meaning when you think of that special girl out there, whoever she is, and wherever she is, you won’t likely meet her in some meet market, surrounded by your buddies.
In fact, when you DO meet that special girl, there’s a high probability that she’ll be alone, or you’ll be alone.
And unless you feel confident enough to walk up and start talking to her (in NON pick up language), it’s not going to happen.
Sure, you can wait for somebody to introduce you to somebody, or meet people through social circles, but by developing the confidence to just walk up and start talking to people, you’ll have LOT more options, and chances, and you’ll meet that special girl a LOT sooner.
Now, back to that dreaded thought of “rejection” that usually keeps guys safely on the sidelines.
It’s ONLY possible to “get rejected” if you actually suggest something that she can say “no” to.
If you DON’T do that, you can’t get rejected.
Now, it is possible of for you to walk up to her, and have her shut you down completely before you even open your mouth, but if you shower regularly and you don’t have your ding-dong hanging out of your pants, that’s not very likely.
But there IS a way talk to her that is literally rejection proof, so you’ll be able to “feel each other out” and see if you’re both ready to take the next step.
No risk, no worries, no rejection.
And no matter WHAT happens, you’ll BOTH feel much better after the interaction.