I’ve got a friend that uses the “Terminator Frame” any time he enters a room.

If you haven’t seen the original in a while, or you’ve never seen it, it’s like this.

This robot (The Terminator) had this computer screen in his head. As we walked through reality, the people he saw would appear in the center, and then all the information about them would appear around them.

When they spoke, the words would appear, as would several potential responses. He (the Terminator) would also see any weapons or dangers highlighted.

Enter The Terminator

The way my friend “reprogrammed” this (through some wicked self hypnosis) was to walk into a room, and immediately see all the girls that were displaying open body language, and sending him some IOI’s.

So instead of having a mix of confusion, worry, and sexual desire, like most guys have, he would immediately identify each girl who was open to an approach.

Then he would simply approach, imagining that he had this “Terminator” screen feeding him information and ideas on what to say and how to behave.

Imaginary Power

Now, he didn’t REALLY see a computer screen, and he didn’t REALLY words pop up and have some computer voice in his head telling him what to say.

This was an IMAGINARY frame that helped him to get rid of that natural anxiety that we all have.

It also helped him to “play” instead of taking things so seriously.

And, by the way, this guy got laid a TON by some REALLY hot girls.

All because he had an imaginary “helper” which turned him into an approach machine, literally.

Tons of Information

However you get there, the ability to “read” a room, and approach the girls that are most open is crucial.

Most guys never get this far. Instead of approaching girls that are sending out IOI’s, then only approach girls they LIKE.

Whose Desires?

They approach based on THEIR OWN desires, instead of the desires in the room.

That’s the real secret. If you can look out into a room, find the girls that are open and giving you IOI’s and then approach from within THAT GROUP, instead of the whole room, you’ll have a LOT more success.

Inside or Outside?

The easiest way to dramatically increase your social intelligence is to simply get out of your head, and pay attention to what’s going on.

There are also plenty of other ways to increase social intelligence, so approaching, opening, increasing attraction, and closing is second nature.