Girls Love You!

You are money, so money, and you don’t even know it.

If you know that line, then you know it’s from the movie, “Swingers.”

A guy and his buddies are trying to pick up girls throughout the movie.

In one scene, a guy had a girl interested in him, but he was afraid to make a move.

He was unaware how much the girl was into him, and he was unaware of how much he had to offer.

You’ve Got More Than You Think

Meaning he UNDERESTIMATED his own value to her, and he UNDERESTIMATED her attraction to him, therefore significantly OVERESTIMATING the chances of getting shot down.

Believe it or not, this happens ALL THE TIME.

Think about how hard it is to approach girls. Now take that feeling, and magnify it by about a billion.

THAT’S how hard it is for women to approach guys. Now, I’m not talking about flirting, or sending clear signals across a room, or accidentally bumping into you as she walks past.

I’m talking about getting up, walking across the room, ALL ALONE, walking up to you, while you’re surrounded by your buddies, and starting a conversation, with the intention of getting your number.

To most normal girls, this is absolutely UNTHINKABLE.

To do so, in her mind, she would be clearly labeling herself as a big, huge, SLUT.

Women are hard wired, on a deep evolutionary level, to avoid the SLUT label at all costs.

Better Safe Than Sorry

Despite what you may think, and despite what nonsense is being passed around, girls simply DO NOT approach.

Sure, some have, some do, but they are the exception that proves the rule.

Think of it this way. Imagine that you operated from the model that girls did the approaching.

You got dressed up. You put on your best clothes, your best cologne, and then went and sat with your buddies and hoped girls would come and pick you up.

Are You Waiting To Get Approached?

Would that work? Maybe if you were a movie star or something.

Here’s the bottom line. Girls would LOVE to approach, but they simply can’t. If you think they SHOULD, get over it, because you’ll be waiting a long time.

Read The Signs, Fool!

But what they CAN do is send out TONS of signals to guys they’re interested in. They look across the room, they see a guy they’re interested in, and they’ve got to attract his attention without seeming like a easy lay.

So, the signals they send are very subtle. But they’re there. And if you haven’t tuned your brain to see them, you’ll miss out on a lot of action.

Luckily, building up your social intelligence is pretty easy. In only a few minutes a day, doing some really goofy exercises (at home where nobody can see you) you’ll quickly boost your social intelligence so you’ll start seeing all the MAGIC that is hidden in all human interactions. Verbal and non-verbal, conscious and unconscious, seen and unseen.

Then you’ll discover how MONEY you really are.