Why Looks Don’t Matter To Girls
This isn’t because men are “visual” like many people have claimed. Everything that has to do with sex and reproduction is based on evolution.
The bottom line is that every generation there were small changes in our DNA makeup. Not programmed in by nature or aliens, but just random copying errors.
Changes that added benefits were kept. Changes that took away benefits or caused damage were quickly eliminated. (Those that had these didn’t live long enough to reproduce.)
If you know anything about marketing, then you know what a “split test” is. It’s when you take your ad, change something about it, and run it against the original, just to see which works better.
You can think of evolution as one LOOOONG split test. And WE are the winners.
So, back to the question.
Why do guys think mostly in terms of looks when they think of their ideal girl?
This is most definitely NOT politically correct, but it’s scientifically and biologically correct.
Men want the most suitable mothers for their potential children. This means big boobs, smooth skin, thin legs, flat stomach, and youth.
Why youth?
Because if you get together with a young girl, you’ll have more babies than if you get together with an older woman. It’s pure mathematics. Nothing else. Evolution made more copies of people that liked young girls, since guys that liked young girls made more copies of themselves.
Mother Nature Always Wins
Anyhow, anything that makes up a suitable mate, from male standpoint, can be determined by looking at her.
This generally includes ANY sign of youth, and ANY sign of health. Boobs, teeth, hair, lips, legs, whatever.
One glance across the room will tell a guy everything he needs to know.
What about girls?
Do looks matter as much?
No.
They do not.
Why?
Think about what’s important to a woman. After she gets pregnant, she’s out for a couple years. That means her man needs to be out taking care of business.
This means being a good hunter. Which means being able to be a strong social leader.
Why?
Any time the guys go out hunting, the dude in charge is going to bring home the most meat. The dude at the bottom is going to get the leftovers.
No woman wants to be helpless for two years while living off the leftovers.
All women want to have their man being the leader, and bringing home the most meat.
How can they tell he’s the leader?
How he carries himself. How he speaks to others. How he handles criticism. His confidence. His body language. What he believes about himself and his future.
Can she tell this by looking?
Nope.
How does she tell?
By interacting. By seeing him under pressure. By seeing how he is around his boys.
How can you become a social leader? A TRUE alpha?