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This is a very basic description of human perception.
How we perceive the world around us is directly related to our own filters.
Some of these filters are pretty hard wired. These are throwbacks from evolution and kept us safe when we were running around in the jungle chasing dinner.
Since cavemen weren’t famous for their intellectual reasoning, Mother Nature had to make certain things automatic.
So when they saw something out of the corner of their eye that was a potential threat, that flight or fight response AUTOMATICALLY kicked in. They’d take off running before they knew what was what.
We’ve still got those filters today, which is pretty funny whenever we jump at shadows!
Other filters are based on our recent experience. Things that we’ve been thinking about a lot lately will start showing up.
Others are kind of in between, and they are not set in stone, but they take some effort to change.
They are also structurally based, rather than content based.
In NLP, these are called “Meta Programs.”
Like if you are more motivated by fear or pleasure. Or if you see a new situation, do you automatically find things you are familiar with, or things you are unfamiliar with?
Or when you make a decision, does it come from the inside, or do you need to hear validation from the outside?
One thing that’s crucial is how open you are to seeing opportunities.
You can have the attitude of “nothing good ever happens to me,” or “why doesn’t anything happen to me.”
Many people have these thought patterns running through their heads.
And guess what? Nothing ever happens to them!
Others have the idea of “Something fantastic is going to happen,” or even “I wonder what cool thing is going to happen?”
And guess what? Those people usually find some pretty good things. Some may say they are extraordinary lucky.
Imagine if you saw an interesting person across the room. Instead of thinking, “I’d like to talk to them, but I might get rejected,” you thought, “I wonder what cool things I can find out about that person?”
Imagine going into a job interview and instead of thinking, “I hope I don’t mess up,” you think, “Hmm, I wonder if this is the right opportunity for me?”
Now, this wouldn’t magically change your life. It wouldn’t rain money.
But you would create a LOT more positive events.
All it takes is a shift inside, and you’ll see a shift outside.