Is It Really OK To Be Yourself?
This girl met this guy at college. They started dating, and she started to slowly suggest he make changes. At first it was his clothes. Then it was the music he listened to. Then the kind of food he ate. All his friends thought it was just another case of a guy doing ANYTHING to NOT lose his girl.
It happens, but this was a pretty extreme case.
But then it got REALLY extreme. She convinced him to have plastic surgery. Some kind of nose job. Then his friends REALLY thought he was nuts. Like call the guys in the white suits to take him away nuts.
As it turned out, it was even worse. She was doing all this for an art project. And he was the canvas. When he realized that she was doing all of this just to show her art class how “powerful” and “manipulative” she was, he was devastated.
All along, she didn’t really care for him.
Now, I’m sure you’ve never gone to this extreme, but something happens to a guy when he’s with a girl, or about to be with a girl.
Guys will do ANYTHING if they think it will help them get laid. Anything except what they should do.
Which is simply get into the habit of talking to people. Becoming outgoing and social. Talking to cute girls just because it’s fun to talk to cute girls. If they are interesting enough to take it further, take if further.
If not, no big deal.
Now, this may seem like an impossible task, especially if you have very little experience. But the more experience you get, the easier this will be.
Start small. Take your time. Start with harmless flirting. Then start saying “hello.” After that, start conversations.
Once you get to a certain point, you’ll come to a realization. A very powerful, and very freeing realization.
You don’t have to change for anybody.
Just the way you are, right now as you read this, there’s likely plenty of girls out there who would be happy to be with you.
(This, of course, assumes you shower regularly and don’t sleep in dumpsters covered in vomit every night.)
It’s not a matter of changing to meet that “one” girl.
It’s a matter of finding that “one” girl.
The more girls you talk to, the easier it will be to find her.
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