What are some crucial things you need to be successful with women?

I don’t mean successful as in some day, maybe hopefully meeting someone.

I’m talking about having the confidence, skills, and tenacity to come up with the ideal woman, the ideal personality type, and having no problem walking up to and talking to girls long enough to see if they qualify or not.

Real or Fake?

Many guys “number close” like the world’s going to end in a few minutes, but get pretty spotty results. Just being able to walk up and ask for her number is a start, but it’s not nearly enough.

If you number close a girl, she’s going to be able to “sniff out” if SHE’S the only one you’ve closed recently, of if you just make it a habit to number close every girl with a pair of boobs and a pulse.

Which Category?

You may get a number, but she’ll put you in the “player” category in her mind, not the “Potential Mr. Right” category.

Naturally then, on top of number closing skills (being able to walk up and ask for the number) you need a couple more skills. One is you’ve got to dress halfway decently. Nothing special, nothing you need to spend all kinds of time on, just you look decent, and there aren’t any obvious stains on your shirt.

Take A Shower!

And of course, you’ll need some decent hygiene. You can’t stink like a bum, and you can’t have bad breath.

So far so good, right?

There’s ONE thing that will DRAMATICALLY improve your ability. This is a very subtle skill to have, and most gurus or PUA’s don’t talk about it.

It’s when you look out into a room, and tell who’s giving you signals, and who isn’t.

Social Intelligence

It’s when you’re talking to her, and just KNOW when she wants to be touched, or caressed, or moved closer to.

It’s when you KNOW you are at a high point in the conversation, (a local maximum of attraction, if you will) and therefore the PERFECT time to close. (Any kind of close, even THAT kind!).

It’s when you see a text from her, and you know how long to wait before responding, and what to say to generate the desired effect.

The Human Nutjob Factor

Let’s be honest. Women are crazy. OK, let’s be more honest. PEOPLE are crazy. We humans are just on the sane side of psychotic, and nobody can predict our behavior.

Which means whenever you’re dealing with HUMANS, there is NO set of rules to follow. If you want to succeed (in selling, in seducing, in creating and maintaining relationships) you’ve got to read the situation, and know how to respond appropriately.

How do you do that?

With a healthy level of SOCIAL INTELLIGENCE. Without it, you’re just shooting darts in the dark with a blindfold.

If you want MORE social intelligence, so you can easily get MORE success with the ladies, check this out: