Keep The Conversation Flowing Like Water
Then what?
Knowing how to keep a conversation flowing, and her feeling relaxed and not under any pressure, is essential to being able to effectively increase her interest.
So, how do you do that?
You could come up with a bunch of stuff to say beforehand, as some people recommend, but then you’d be like a roving stand up comedian. If she doesn’t like your “act” then you don’t have much to fall back on.
A much better strategy would be to combine a couple of ideas from covert hypnosis.
One is called “Utilization.” This is when you simply take whatever she gives you, and use it. This way, you won’t freak out if she doesn’t respond the way you think she “should.”
The other thing to use is to elicit her own “trance states.”
Now, this doesn’t mean pull out your watch and start swinging like some goof up on stage.
What it does mean is eliciting, or get her talking about things she’s really interested in.
Now, most girls are going to freeze up if you walk up and start asking her all kinds of personal questions.
Always Go First
Don’t argue or bust on her if hers are different. That comes later.
At this stage of the conversation, you’re just interested in getting her talking about things that make her feel good.
Since they are her ideas, and not your stories or techniques, there won’t be any resistance.
Then just keep “digging for gold” and get her more and more juiced about her own ideas.
The ideal outcome for this conversational tactic is to get her talking about her “ideal future” with regards to hobbies, jobs, school, or whatever she’s comfortable talking about.
Granted, this takes time, and practice. But once you get to this level, you won’t need any kind of memorized game or patterns or even any bling.
Because she’ll be talking about her ideal future, all while looking at you.
Which will get her to subconsciously associate the two, together, (you and her dreams) in her mind.
And when you can do that, you’re doing pretty good.
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