Paint By Numbers Pick Up?
You memorize them, say them in the right order, and suddenly she’ll turn into your willing sex slave.
Now, just for a minute, imagine what the world would be like if this were actually true. First of all, everybody would be getting laid all the time.
It would be like in the movie, “Bruce Almighty,” when Bruce became God, and started answering “Yes!” to everybody’s prayers.
Good news? Everybody won the lottery.
Bad news? Their winnings were only about $1, since everybody won.
If there WAS some kind of magic string of words that would turn girls into raving sex maniacs, no girl would ever leave her house.
She’d be too terrified.
What if you knew that there was a magic set of words that would transfer ALL the money in your bank account into the person who said these magic words?
AND that anybody could learn these magic words on the internet, for free?
You’d keep all your cash in your house, that’s what.
Simply because girls go out and talk to random guys is proof that magic words simply don’t exist.
Nor do convoluted language patterns and pick up techniques.
Don’t mean to burst your bubble, but if any “paint by numbers” technique existed, it wouldn’t last very long.
So stop looking for what to say, or what to do, and how exactly to use kino.
The secret of success, in ANY AREA, including getting girls, is simple.
Try something.
See what happens.
Did it work? Good. Do more.
No? No sweat. Try something different.
So, why don’t more guys understand this, and use this simple step by step “procedure” to getting laid (or getting whatever?)
It’s in the “try something” phase.
This part requires doing something WITHOUT KNOWING how it will turn out. Most people (let alone guys who want to pick up girls) are absolutely and utterly TERRIFIED of doing this.
So we “pretend” that we just need to “learn more” or “study more” or whatever other lie we tell ourselves to keep us from getting rejected. Usually this involves us sitting around waiting for somebody to “tell us” what to do.
Milton Erickson, one of the most famous Hypnotherapists of all time (and upon whom most of NLP is based) had this genius “homework session” for one of his clients.
Guy comes in, and says he’s terrified of rejection. He’d like a girlfriend, but he’s terrified of talking to girls.
What should I do, doc?
Does Erickson talk about his childhood? His deep feelings about his mom? Does he make him memorize a bunch of language patterns?
Nope.
Erickson (who had a HUGE success rate only after one or two sessions) merely said this:
“OK, Mr. Client. I promise I can cure you. Do what I say, and you’ll have a girlfriend in no time.”
“Great doc! Thanks! I’ll do anything. What do I do?”
Doc says, “Go out and get rejected ten times, and then come see me next week.”
Client swallows and says OK. He comes back the next week.
“Well,” Doc says, “Did you get rejected ten times?”
“Nope.” Client says, smiling.
“Well, what happened?”
“Well, I got rejected six times, but girl number seven is now my girlfriend.”
See how that works?