Every human has a huge collection of unmet wants and needs. As soon a we achieve something, it’s not long before we want something else.
Nothing wrong with this, it’s just human nature.
Some of these things are simple, like getting something to eat or drink.
Some of these are much deeper and more powerful, like expressing your true self, and getting that deep feeling of accomplishment.
Whenever we look out into the world, we do so through a set of filters. How we see the world, and interpret it will be HUGELY influenced by these filters.
Most people don’t even know they exist, let alone understand how we can not only adjust our own, but how to covertly adjust the filters of others.
Advertisers have known this for centuries. You put an attractive girl next to a product, any product, and she’s going to evoke feelings, sometimes unconscious, of sexual desire.
We then see that product through that filter of sexual desire, making it much more attractive, no matter what it is.
If you can get a girl looking at you through similar filters (not necessarily sexual desire), she’ll have a hard time NOT being attracted to you.
What kind of filters?
Anything that has to do with those deep desires that we all have. Feelings of excitement, hope, wonder, joy, deep emotional pleasure, dreams for the future.
The secret is that these are pretty easy to elicit. All you’ve got to do is establish a base level of rapport (which is pretty easy and automatic, since humans are “pack animals”), and you’re good to go.
Just ask the right questions, follow up questions, and leverage those things that she wants.
Truth is, when you talk about HER deep desires, wants and dreams, you really won’t have to talk about yourself at all.
Learn to do this, and you can literally create attraction in pretty much any girl you meet.