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How To Get The Best Of Both Worlds

Long Range Thinking

Long Term Thinking For Short Term Success

In the world of running, there’s fast twitch muscle fibers, and slow twitch muscle fibers. This pretty much determines if you are better at long distance running, or sprinting. (Or if you’re like me with NO twitch muscle fibers, lol).

Meaning if you are naturally fast twitch, you’d be a pretty good sprinter. If you are really low twitch, you’d be a good long distance runner.

But here’s the thing. You can turn a fast twitch muscle into a slow twitch, but not the other way around. Meaning a natural sprinter, with proper training, can turn into a decent long distance runner. But a natural long distance runner can only go so fast in a sprint, you matter HOW hard they train.

Most guys, if they study ANY aspect of game, eventually face a decision. Should you pursue multiple, short term relationships, or should you look for that ONE special girl.

Some choose out of anger, or hate, or pain, after getting burned. They fell in love, got their heart broken, and will forever keep themselves protected from further pain by staying ONLY in short term relationships with low quality women.

Some guys just like the idea of hitting it with strangers.

However, keep something in mind. If you’ve told yourself that you want to be a player now, and settle down later, you may run into trouble.

Game is similar to muscle fibers. You can turn a monogamist into a player, but it’s tough to turn a player into a monogamist.

But, if you have some patience, and a long view, there IS a way to get the best of both worlds.

First, you’ll need to make the serious decision that one day, you DO want to settle down with Miss Right.

Next, you’ll have to come up with some pretty tight criteria of what Miss Right is like.

Then you’ve got to have the courage to go out and meet as many girls as possible, in your quest for her.

Make no mistake, this is incredible difficult. It’s something most guys are simply not capable of doing. Most guys (and most people for that matter) simply take what they can get, call it good, and hope everything works out.

Because the right relationship with the right woman can be so INCREDIBLY FANTASTIC, and the opposite so utterly horrible, do you REALLY want to leave that up to chance?

Now, how does that “best of both worlds” part work?

In the process of meeting as many girls as you can to find Miss Right, you will meet a lot of girls (duh).

A lot of girls who will voluntarily spin your propeller in ways you’ve never DREAMED of!

So long as you keep your sights set on the end prize (You and Miss Right) and stay honest with yourself and what you’re after, the PATH to that inevitable success will be pretty fun.


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The Ultimate Tool To Beat All Others

Brains!

Maximize Your Brain

Last weekend I went out and my next door neighbor had this guy doing some work on his house.

He had all his tools out, leaning up against the house, his truck, pretty much everywhere.

I guess the guy was doing some kind of big renovation or something.

I saw this one tool that looked completely foreign. It was a combination of a couple of familiar tools, but as they were put together I couldn’t fathom what they were used for.

I couldn’t get my mind off that the rest of the day.

When you think of all the stuff you can do today, that you couldn’t do just a year or so ago, it’s actually pretty amazing.

Not just the things you can do, but the tools you can use. Humans use tools without even thinking about them. But pretty much any gadget that you can think of, any device that is used for any purpose is some kind of tool.

Most tools are simple in concept, but pretty complicated in design. Your car gets you from point A to point B, but if you had to explain every part in detail, most of us would come up pretty short.

This is kind of easy to understand, as all tools are really revisions of previous tools. Things that were added to give more functionality.

A car still gets us from point A to point B as its primary function, but the cars today are a kajillion times more complicated than the cars from the fifties.

And they tell us that within the next couple of years, we’ll have self driving cars in some U.S. cities.

But there’s one tool that is extremely complicated in function AND extremely complicated in design.

This tool is so complicated that it is continuously updating itself, year after year. Being able to do more things, learn more things, use more things.

This “tool,” of course is your brain. You. Your mind-body system that is capable of more.

No matter HOW MUCH you can do now, you can do more. No matter how much you know now, you can learn more. No matter how much you’ve already created, you can create more. (And if you come back and read that sentence ten years from now it’s still true.)

Remember the story of the two guys who had the tree chopping contest? They both started off chopping trees with their axes. One guy would stop every hour, for five minutes.

At first, this allowed his competition to get ahead. But after a few hours, the once-an-hour guy started to take the lead.

See, he stopped every hour not to rest, but to sharpen his axe. Keeping your tool in tip top shape is a sure way to blow away the competition.

Even if the competition is your present self vs. your future self.

How do you take care of your most valuable tool?

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Overcome All Frame Tests

Deep Self Confidence Is The Answer

Self Confidence Is The Key

There’s been a lot written about how to overcome “shit tests.”

These are tests that are designed to let her know, on a deep unconscious level, that you can’t be rattled. That you have an incredible strength of character and maximum levels of self confidence. If you’re doing well in the early parts of the conversation, and she throws out some of these tests, it’s actually a good thing.

She wants you to pass, because she’s interested so far. She wouldn’t throw them out unless she was. It’s also a function of her subconscious, much more than her conscious. It’s not like she chooses to do them like she’s sitting there playing a game of chess with you.

Without getting into the linguistic details, the easiest way to overcome them is to show her you aren’t bothered in the least. Say something funny about them, agree with them, playfully flip them around, and then just keep on talking about whatever you were talking about.

There are two very general, and very POWERFUL ways of overcoming these with ease. Or building up your ability to overcome them.

One is to simply get out there and get as many as you can. Whether or not you pass them isn’t the strategy. Just getting them is. Then later on, take some time and think of how you COULD have responded, that would show you weren’t rattled, and would allow you to keep the frame.

This will build up your memory of all kinds of different situations, so you start to overcome more naturally. This requires you fully understand, on a deep level, that there are PLENTY of girls out there, and so long as are focused on women in general, you’ll do fine. If you start to focus on one WOMAN, that’s when you run into trouble. Since every single conversation with every single WOMAN is different, it’s pointless to try and reverse engineer every potential obstacle before it comes up.

The second way to overcome these tests is to develop such solid, massive self confidence that they REALLY DON’T bother you at all.

When you think about it, the entire reason guys spend so much time trying to overcome them is that they really DO bother them.

Think about this from a sales objection standpoint. If you had a product, and you had to convince people to buy it, you would be worried about, and would take a lot of time practicing overcoming various objections.

But what if you had a product that was so high quality, and so popular you didn’t need to do ANY selling? All you had to do was to open the shop, and sit back and watch people line up?

What if your product was so popular you had to kick people out of your store who misbehaved? (No soup for you!)

That’s the kind of self confidence and depth of experience that will make ALL TESTS irrelevant.

How do you get such confidence? Start talking to girls. Start becoming social. Get a really deep appreciation and understanding that the world is filled with people.

So much so that if anybody, anywhere gives you any kind of test, that’s THEIR problem, not yours.

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How To Become Familiar With The Unknown 

You That You've Always Got It No Matter What

Trust Yourself On A Deep Level

Once I was out driving around an unfamiliar part of town, in a city I’d been in only a few days.

I’d taken wrong turn, and wasn’t really paying attention to where I was going until I realized I didn’t really know where I was.

Then when I got back on track, I noticed something kind of interesting.

The “familiar” buildings and landmarks looked pretty much the same as the ones when I was lost.

(Obviously, lol).

I recalled a few days ago when I’d gotten into town, when those now familiar buildings and landmarks were strange.

Same external environment, completely different internal state.

This happens quite a bit. You walk into a party, and don’t know anybody. So you feel strange, withdrawn, a little nervous lately.

But if you walked into the same party, and saw maybe three or four familiar faces spread out amongst a crowd of strangers, you’d feel totally different. Excited. Happy. Outgoing.

Most of us think that we need to take time to “get used to” our environment. To wait until we get the lay of the land, so to speak, until we feel comfortable.

But what if you could feel comfortable right away, even in strange situations?

One of the hallmarks of charismatic and magnetic people is that they show up anywhere, any time, and feel totally comfortable and at home.

They walk into a party, and even though they don’t know ANYBODY, they have enough experience meeting and talking to strangers, AND a strong enough belief in themselves, that they KNOW that they are going to have a good time.

They KNOW they are going to meet some interesting people, find out some interesting stories and share some interesting experiences.

All within that first glance across a room filled with strangers.

What’s their secret?

Most of us feel comfortable with people that we know.

Charismatic folks feel comfortable because they know people.

So do you. 

We all have the same fears, anxieties, worries. We also share a lot of the same strengths, hopes, and desires.

We’re just waiting for somebody courageous enough to make that first connection.

Usually, we all sit around and wait for it to happen on its own. Which is pretty slowly.

But when you develop that unshakeable trust that comes from a deep inner knowledge of your true power, it will happen a lot more quickly.

People will notice something about you. You’ll notice something about people.

Something familiar, exciting and wonderful.

Just waiting to be discovered.

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Easy Day Game Approach Strategy

Approach Girls Anywhere Any Time

Easy Confidence Builder

Here’s an exercise you can do that will significantly boost your confidence, and when done correctly will pretty much guarantee you WON’T get shot down when you approach.

It’s not as easy as it sounds, so you may need a few tries before you get the hang of it.

It requires that you purposely keep your movements slow. The sign of a true confident person is slow and measured movements, not eyes or body parts darting around.

Anyhow, here’s what you do. It’s a good idea if you and your “target” are both stationary, and about 5 meters or more apart, but not more than 10 or 15. You need to read each others facial expressions.

Find somebody interesting, and look at them. Don’t stare, just look. When they notice you looking, hold eye contact. Don’t stare. Stay relaxed. Hold eye contact and within about three or four seconds, let a smile slowly build on your face. A relaxed, kind smile. Not a lecherous or predatory one. Just a relaxed smile to match your relaxed face that says, “I enjoy looking at you.”

If she smiles, looks away and then looks back, that’s about as clear a sign as you’ll EVER get that she’s interested, and she wants you to approach her.

Of course, how you approach, and what you say when you do will have an impact on what happens next. Nothing is guaranteed. But if you can be relaxed and confident when you approach, and say something simple like, “Hi, I noticed you from over there and I wanted to meet you. My name’s…” and then introduce yourself, you’ll be almost guaranteed to get a decent conversation.

(Just make sure you don’t have garlic breath or something!)

If you’re having trouble with approaches, this is a GREAT way to build up your confidence. Don’t worry about number closing or anything. Just exchange a few words, smile and say, “Well I enjoyed meeting you. I hope I see you around.” And then leave it at that.

It will only take you a few times doing this to realize she WANTS you to get her number. Then when you get to that stage, you’ll be collecting HIGH QUALITY numbers from girls who are genuinely interested in you. Not girls who give you their number just to get rid of you.

This will build your confidence, get you some decent numbers, and quickly take your day game to levels most guys never get to.

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Which Super Conscious Mind?

Kangaroos Know All About Hypnosis

What Do Kangaroos Know About Hypnosis?

One of the cool things about the Milton Model is ambiguity.

This is when you’ve got a few vague words, and you aren’t sure what they mean.

One of the specific patterns is called the “lack of referential index.”

Usually this involves the playful use of pronouns. A pronoun (he, she, they) is usually used after a proper noun is used (Bob, My Uncle, The Purple Kangaroo With a Penguin in his Pouch.)

For example, if I say, “The kangaroo looked at me and then he said, “dude!”

It’s clear that the “he” refers to the kangaroo.

But what if I said this:

“I was fishing with my brother, his friend, and this kangaroo. Then he looked at me and told me that learning hypnosis is pretty easy.”

In this case the, “he” is unclear. 

Is it my brother? His friend? The kangaroo?

But while you’re brain is trying to figure out which “he” said “learning hypnosis is easy” you keep focusing on the “learning hypnosis is easy.” Which means you’ll start to believe that it’s true.

This is how you can leverage an idea by using the “lack of referential index pattern.”

Here’s another way, but on a broader, more “meta” scale.

What is meant by the “super conscious brain?”

Is it the “collective unconscious” that Jung referred to, which is basically a whole bunch of different and unconnected unconscious minds, that are all very similar?

Or is it the Huna style, which is this one brain in the sky (or in some other dimension) that we are all plugged into?

Or is it really just one big brain that we aren’t just plugged into, but are all manifestations of?

Luckily, it doesn’t matter. Just like the “he said learning hypnosis is easy” sentence, the real “meat” of the sentence is not who the particular “he” is, but the idea that learning hypnosis is easy.

And your own personal belief on the exact nature of the Super Conscious (the three of the proposed definitions above or your own) doesn’t really matter.

What matters is that you realize that YOU are much more than YOU. Whether you believe that means your raw potential as a biological human entity, or your metaphysical and infinite “being-ness” as connected to the Super Conscious.

So long as you make it a point, an intention, a goal, a daily practice, of tapping into that Super Conscious, whatever and however you believe it to be.

How do you do that?

Well, it’s not on TV. It’s not on your iPhone. It’s not down at the mall. (Well it is, but access is kind of difficult!)

The easiest access, which you already know, is through your own inner mind. Deep within contemplation, waiting  between the thoughts you are always thinking.

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How To Keep Conversations Going With Girls

Just Go With The Flow

Practice Makes Perfect

What do you say to a girl after you’ve introduced yourself? That’s a question most guys think they need to answer BEFORE they walk over there. But that’s kind of putting the cart before the horse. It assumes that you want to talk to her after you introduce yourself. It assumes she wants to talk to YOU after you introduce yourself.

Believe it or not, neither of these are a given. So there’s really no point in trying to come up with a million and one conversational topics before you go over there.

However, if you need some rules to keep handy, here’s a few. The first thing you should do is simply pace the environment, and your activity.

If you made eye contact with her a couple times before you approach (which is a good idea), just mention that when you walk over.

“Hi, I noticed you from over there, and I was interested in meeting you. My name’s George.”

Then see how she responds. If she looks likes you’re intruding, or she’s shocked, or she looks scared, don’t worry. There’s plenty of girls. However if she smiles (which is pretty likely if you were trading EC before you walked over) just say something else about the environment.

This can be anything neutral that is absolutely true. It sure is bright in here. The music is pretty loud. The drinks here are delicious. (This is called an ice breaker, BTW, it’s only designed to make you and her feel more comfortable).

Then, see how she responds to that. If she smiling and looking at you with her face AND her body, keep going. If not, bail, and go somewhere else.

After that, just use your imagination.

Don’t know what to say?

Here’s the best way to think of things. Just start approaching girls. Start today. Then, later on, keep a journal of what happened. Just write down things you COULD have said or done that might have made things go better.

If you did this once a day, in a few weeks you’d have ZERO PROBLEMS coming up with what to say.

The problem with most guys is they treat talking to girls like it’s some kind of intellectual exercise.

It’s not. It’s just like sports. You’ve got to practice, fall on your face, gain some experience, and then learn from experience. That’s really the only way to get better.

If you are committed to doing this, you’ll soon have ZERO anxieties when it comes to talking to girls. You’ll not only have plenty of say, but you’ll have lots of experience talking to girls that turn out to be not so interesting.

Which means you can simply refine your criteria for your dream girl, and keep looking for her.

Unleash Your Super Powers

Embrace Your True Nature

Resonate With Your Nature

I’ve always been fascinated by resonance.

As a kid, I’d always like to slosh the water back in forth at the bathtub, at just the right frequency, to splash as much of it all over the floor as possible.

Later, me and my buddies applied this to street signs. If you pushed on them with just the right frequency, you could get them swinging back and forth in some pretty big arcs. Not bad for a metal pole stuck in concrete.

Even soldiers learned the hard way that they need to break cadence, how they march in time, when crossing a bridge.

Once a bunch of soldiers crossed a bridge, all marching in step. Unfortunately, the frequency of their gate was the same frequency that swung the bridge, and it collapsed.

If you take any system, and apply force in the same frequency that system naturally resonates at, you can get some pretty cool effects.

This is the reason why the sky is blue. Of all the colors in the spectrum, the ones that resonate the most in the molecules of the upper atmosphere, blue light does it the best. It’s the light that’s most naturally passed through.

Human stories are another example. Joseph Campbell showed us a long time ago that the same basic structure shows up in myths in cultures all over the world.

This “Hero’s Journey” is in Hollywood blockbusters like Star Wars, The Wizard of Oz, Spiderman, Harry Potter, and on and on.

To be sure, every story structure was likely thought up and told since the dawn of time. But the structure that resonated the most, the kind the seemed the truest to most listeners, was the Hero’s Journey.

Why?

Because it represents the structure of our lives. We are called to a journey much greater than the one we are currently on.

We are given a huge range of skills, learning abilities,and capabilities. Ones that are almost never put to use in a modern society.

If you do what most people do, which is do what you’re told, stay out of trouble, and make just enough to pay the bills, you’ll never come close to even scratching the surface of what you’re capable of.

But since you want more, you’re not content to simply follow orders like most people are. You aren’t satisfied to just “not get in trouble.”

You  know you’ve got many skills yet to discover, and many journeys to go on.

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Destroy Approach Anxiety Once And For All

Always Leave On A High Note

Always Leave On A High Note

What’s the one question guys will invariably ask when they see their buddy talking to a cute girl?

They will always ask if he got the number. Or they’ll ask what the outcome of the conversation was.

And if they don’t get the number, everybody assumes that the guy failed.

This is natural, but it’s also pretty dangerous. Why? Imagine if your number one goal when talking to girls was to close her as high as you could. Number close, kino close, kiss close, whatever.

Even if you have a specific level you’re going for, like a number close, this is still pretty dangerous.

Why?

Because on a deep level, it creates the mindset that she has something you don’t. And you’re only successful if she gives it to you. We all know that this is a numbers game, right? Just like in sales. Call enough people, and you’ll make money. Talk to enough girls, and you’ll get some numbers.

The problem is the ones that DON’T give you their number. No matter how much self confidence and self esteem you have, not getting a number when that is your primary goal is going to hurt. Sometimes not so much, sometimes a lot.

Also consider this. The way our brains operate is that every time we go into a new situation, our brains automatically call up as many similar experiences as possible, to prepare us for what might happen.

Which means when you’re approaching a girl for the first time, you will automatically recall, subconsciously, all the other girls you’ve ever approached. And if every single one them is put into a “win-loss” category in your  mind, guess what feeling you’ll suddenly feel?

Stress. Anxiety. Worry. Even fear.

What’s a better alternative?

Just talk to girls WITHOUT having any “outcome” in mind. Don’t specifically ask for the number UNLESS she seems like you’re type and UNLESS you are pretty sure you’re going to get it.

Otherwise, don’t worry. Juts enjoy the conversation, and then split. It’s also a GREAT IDEA if you leave on a “high note.”

Most guys talk to girls until they get blown out. This creates a subconscious connection between getting blown out, and talking to girls. Which means every time you approach a girl, you’ll feel that fear of getting blown out.

On the other hand, if you ALWAYS leave on a high note, you’ll create a whole different automatic response.

If, from now on, you leave every conversation with a girl thinking, “Wow, that was fun, I could have done more!” Then talking to girls will soon start to be fun and exciting. Not stressful or anxious.

And guess what? It won’t be long before girls start dropping OBVIOUS hints that they want to give you their number.

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How To Take A Daily Vacation

Daily Retreats Inside Your Mind

Sink Into Your Inner Self

What is meant by our “higher self?”

It can obviously mean a lot of things to a lot of people.

Whenever people say, “take the high road,” they mean to not give in to emotional reactions, and live or act according to higher principles.

It’s also been said that the true nature of an “enlightened” person is one who can disregard the instinctive programming we all share, and live according to our consciously chosen goals.

We choose to stop eating not because we’re full, but because we’re consciously choosing the shape of our body.

We choose to stop spending money not because our wallet’s are empty and our credit cards are maxed out, but because we are choosing to create a better financial future for ourselves.

We don’t punch that guy in the face that just blatantly insulted us in front of our peers, because we know that acting from pure rage is never a good idea.

Clearly, acting this way all the time isn’t easy. It sure isn’t automatic, otherwise we’d all be skinny, rich, and spouting peace and love wherever we go.

As a human here on Earth, surrounded by other humans who seem to be competing on an instinctive level, it is certainly hard not to join in the fray.

But as somebody who’s intending to create a much more enlightened life for yourself, your family, and those close to you, it’s something that’s likely on your mind a lot.

One way that can help is to set aside some quite, inner reflective time. A time to just sit, breathe slowly and feel your feelings, and let your deepest thoughts roll through you uninhibited.

This can be kind of hard to get into, (and pretty boring!) but once you see the peace it brings you, it will give you something to look forward to when peace and serenity are the furthest things from your mind.

A kind meditative vacation you can escape to on a daily basis. To regroup and strengthen your higher self, and better calm your instinctive, or irrational self.

Having some help can make it a lot easier. A special collection of sounds and frequencies backed by deep subliminals validating and strengthening your higher self.

You may find an hour a day, right before sleep, is the best way to create that daily, inner restorative vacation. That quiet inner solitude that can give life, and your place in it, whole new meaning.

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