Monthly Archives: December 2014

How To Be An Outlaw Seducer

Are You Riding Training Wheels?

Most guys believe in a set of “rules” to follow when getting girls.

To be sure, there’s no shortage of procedures, methods, sequences of events, etc.

And for some guys, these work pretty good. They can keep you from blowing it, stepping on your toes, etc.

Like one “rule” that many guys follow is to NEVER say the “L” word until she does.

Now, this may not be such a good thing, especially if SHE’S following the same rule.

But it certainly IS a good thing to keep in mind when you’ve only been on a few dates. To be sure, if you guys have been together for a while, and you stare deeply into each others eyes, and you’re feeling it, and you KNOW that she’s feeling it, it’s not such a big deal.

Clearly, sticking TOO MUCH to the rules can get you blown out.

I remember watching some TV show about a high school basketball team. The coach had this really complicated, drawn out play, where the ball was supposed to be passed around a certain number of times.

Only the first player to get the ball drove right to the rim and scored a quick two.

The coach asked him what happened, and the player looked at him and said, “I know coach, but he gave me the lane, so I took it.”

The coach didn’t have a comeback. When your opponent is giving you an opening, you take it. No matter WHAT your “plan” or set of “rules” is.

Strike Whenever The Iron Is Hot

So, yea, follow your “rules,” whatever they are, as a basic guideline.

But think of them as “training wheels.” Wait three seconds before approaching. Don’t call within 48 hours. Don’t text more than once a day. Don’t text her back within three minutes. Always try kino before number closing.

Whatever.

But when she gives you the lane, you’d better take it!

How will you know?

This is perhaps the biggest secret of natural game. Natural “game” isn’t really that different from yours.

It’s just being SUPER attuned to how she is responding. All the micromovements, pupil dilations, slight changes in skin color and how much blood is or isn’t in her lips.

All of this hits in a big, unconscious wave, and gives them that “instinct” that tells them whether or not to push forward, or pull back.

This ability will get you MUCH more action than any memorized set of patterns, or any sequence of events.

And the real secret is that once you get out of your head, you’ll see these signals EVERY WHERE.

Meaning you’ll finally get inside that mythical “secret society” where all is revealed.

Learn How:

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How To Become a Pure Adult

Are You Still A Child?

Most of us would love to be recognized for who we really are.

You aren’t going to like this, but that’s kind of a myth.

When we were children, we didn’t have to do anything. We just kind of expressed ourselves, however we knew how, and got instant feedback.

This lead us to develop a strategy, that was helpful as a child, but not so helpful as an adult.

As a child, in most situations, you just need to speak up, and somebody will come and give you what you need. If you’re a parent, then you know children are hard wired to be the best manipulators on Earth.

Before they learn to talk they learn that certain expressions and sounds will get certain results.

It’s hard to shed this strategy.

As an adult, it’s incredibly tempting to think that all we need to do is simply express ourselves, and get our needs met.

The trouble is that in the adult world, we’re dealing with other adults. Adults we AREN’T related to, and adults who really don’t have any reason to “give us” what we want or need.

In fact, when you consider that MOST adults still have remnants of this childhood strategy, it’s kind of silly to expect that it would work.

Because if you’re sitting there thinking all you need to do is express yourself and you’ll get what you want, everybody else is thinking the same thing, to a certain degree.

Me! Me! Me! Me! Me!

This is one of the reasons we ALL tend to blather on and on about oursevles in social conversations.

It’s that deep inner child screaming out, “Look at me! Notice me! I’m special!”

See, in order for others to fully recognize who we are, we’ve got to make it worth their while. Since most adults are still operating from a childhood mentality, they’re not going to suddenly ditch that mentality when we show up and demand the same thing that they’re demanding.

So, how do you make it worth their while?

How do we set it up so they’ll WANT to get to know us?

By becoming a leader. Not the kind where you get up on the table and rally the troops to march on the castle, but the kind of person who REALLY knows where he’s going.

By becoming a person who has shed all neediness, and looks out into the world with eyes of expectation and curiosity.

Someone who looks out into the world and thinks, “Hmm, I wonder what opportunities I’ll find here…”

When you develop THAT personality, that energy, that aura, people will feel they are getting their needs met simply by being around you.

And since they’ll feel, on a deep subconscious level, that you are NOT biologically connected, that good feeling of being around you will ALWAYS be conditional.

Making them the perfect support crew for WHATEVER you’re creating in life.

How do you GET that personality?

Right Here:

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Secrets Of Frame Test For Instant Attraction With Gorgeous Girls

Scientifically Proven Paths To Her Magic Box Of Love

How To Pass Every Test

How do you pass a girl’s tests?

It’s not like most guys think.

To understand how, you’ve got to understand the difference between “re-framing” and “out framing.”

Reframing is when you take something she’s said, usually a “cause effect” type statement, and then using the content within that statement and flip it around to make it mean something else.

For example, let’s say you’re talking to some girl in a club or wherever. Things are going good, and then she looks over and see’s a guy who’s a bit taller than you, maybe a bit more handsome than you, and maybe has on some better bling than you.

She says something like, “Wow, that guy looks like he’s famous or something. I bet he gets ALL the girls!”

Now, a guy without any control of his frame would get all butt hurt, and get angry at her for even saying such a thing, and stomp home in a huff of boyish anger.

Don’t do that.

In order to “reframe” what she said, you’d take the same content (the handsome guy over there) and flip it around so it means something else.

Now, this is a “test” because it’s SUPPOSED to rattle your cage a bit. She’s actually hoping it doesn’t rattle your cage, so she can be more attracted to you. That’s why she’s talking to you in the first place. She HOPES you seduce her and take her home.

Anyhow, you may say something like this:

“He’s not famous, he’s gay, look at the way he’s holding is drink!”

“Yea, but I bet that guy doesn’t have a very good sense of humor.”

“Yea, but only sluts go for somebody that’s so obviously fake.”

Now, these might work, but it shows you are threatened by him (what she wanted, to see how you’d respond) and they all attempt to “disarm” the threat.

Go Big Baby!

A much better way would be to OUT FRAME.

Which means that you just take what she said, agree with it, and put it in a larger context. You agree that guys handsome, and he gets laid a lot, and he should be famous.

Instead of putting him down, you completely accept it, and come up with a reason it’s a GOOD thing, because it supports YOU in some way.

Something like these might work:

“Yea, I’m glad there are guys like that, or else all those fake girls would be all over me, and I’d have no time for a nice, sweet girl like you.”

“Yep. If it wasn’t for guys like that, and the girls who love them, places like this would never stay in business and we never would have met!”

“Actually, I think that guys IS famous. He was on the cover of some mens magazine with an article teaching guys how to give women three hour long orgams. I’ve been dying to try some of those techniques…”

Now, this are tough to come up with off the top of your head, so practicing can help a lot.

How do you practice?

Here’s How:

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How To Become A Mesmerizing Leader

Jack Up Your Social Status

Every morning I go for a walk, very early.

There’s a park a pass through, and it’s always filled with “dog people.”

These are also people that walk early with their dogs.

They meet up in the park and socialize in the wee morning hours. It’s funny how the dogs interact when they meet each other, especially if it’s the first time.

They approach carefully, sniff each other, walk around each other in careful circles.

There’s a common phrase called “The Pecking Order,” which refers to somebody’s place in their social group.

It comes from chickens. These scientists noticed that a group of chickens would always eat in the same order whenever they dumped a bunch food in their cage. Other animals would fight every single time, but these chickens would always eat in the same order. This is why they called it the “Pecking Order.”

Whenever they did introduce somebody into the mix, they would mix it up a bit, to find where that new member fit into the pecking order. But once they had it figured out, it was business as usual. Food would come, and they would eat in their own self-determined order.

I’m sure you’ve noticed that humans behave in EXACTLY the same way. This makes perfect sense since we are social creatures.

And as social creatures, we will ALWAYS organize ourselves into hierarchies.

Funny thing is we do this quickly, and pretty much subconsciously. Anytime you walk into a room, you add yourself to the mix. Everybody quickly senses where they stand, and it’s back to work.

Any time there’s a change in group structure, this happens, whether we like it or not.

Eat Or Be Eaten

And if you’re NOT projecting strong confidence and social presence, you ARE going to get discounted. People will check you out, assume you’re not a threat, and then see you as another faceless member of the group.

This is what they mean by “First Impressions.” They often happen quickly, subconsciously, and before anybody ever says a word.

If you are in any kind of business where you need to approach people, or if you’re ever in situations where you’d like to approach strangers and build good relationships, it’s crucial that you get a handle on this skill.

The harsh truth about being humans is that because we ARE social animals, no matter where you go, there will be followers, and there will be a leader.

Now if you are content to be a follower, that’s fine. Most people are. Most people are terrified to step up and claim the leadership position. It’s scary, and there’s a lot of pressure.

But there are also ENORMOUS benefits.

If you want some, check this out:

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The Easy Way To Deal With Obstacles

Life Can Be Fun Or Frustrating - Your Choice!

Who Decides What They Mean?

There are a lot of very cliche sayings that have some powerfully deep truths.

Take the super corny one, “When life gives you lemons, make lemonade.”

Sounds like some t-shirt slogan you’d find in the $0.99 bucket, right?

But let’s dig a little deeper.

Say you’ve got some plans. Maybe big plans, maybe not so big.

If you’re like most people, you start out like gangbusters, and then run into trouble.

Maybe things didn’t go as smoothly as you thought. Maybe you ran into some unexpected obstacles.

Maybe when you told other people they looked at you like you were crazy or something.

There’s also a very powerful technique in covert hypnosis called “utilization.”

This means that you, as the hypnotist, have a strong intention. No matter what the client or customer says during the conversation, you simply weave it into your language, and use it. You don’t resist it. You don’t wish they didn’t say it. You have the attitude that everything that they do, you can use to get closer to your outcome.

Nothing we choose to do ever goes without a hitch, except super safe and super boring stuff that anybody can do. (Like watching familiar TV shows on our familiar houses while we eat familiar comfort food).

In order to get the REALLY good stuff, we’ve GOT to fall on our faces. Not just once or twice, but on a regular basis.

The Good Stuff Will Always Take Time And Risks

This is probably the BIGGEST thing that keeps people from achieving their dreams. They somehow bought into the notion that it should be easy or simple or risk free.

So when they run into obstacles, they figured they’d been cheated or conned or the “world is against them.”

But what happens when you see everything that happens, good AND bad, as instructive events to help you get closer?

If you’ve ever been in sales, you’ve likely heard another super corny yet super true statement:

“Every no is one step closer to a yes.”

Now, here’s a weird question.

When you come across those “obstacles” that seem to hold you back, who decided they were obstacles?

Do they HAVE to be thought of as obstacles? If you think of them as learning experiences, are the thought police going to pop out of nowhere and write you a ticket?

Every experience, especially ones you’ve never experienced before, will give you more experience. (huh?)

And every time you come up against an unknown experience, you’ll automatically try and recall all your past similar experiences. The more of those you’ve got, the better you’ll do.

When most people come up against an obstacle, they usually complain. “Oh WHY does my life suck so much?”

What about you? What do you think?

What happens when you think this instead:

“Hmm. Interesting. How can I use this?”

With the right frame of mind, this can be your “go to” mindset, making everything a LOT easier.

Learn How:

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How To Create Irresistible Rapport

Their Idea Is Always Best

The easiest way to get somebody to do something is to get them thinking it was their idea.

This is an old idea, made famous by Dale Carnegies “How To Win Friends And Influence People.”

It’s also plays a large part in covert and conversational hypnosis, both in sales, therapy and relationships.

The basic structure is to use a variety of vague language, so the listener or reader will need to fill in the blanks on their own, using their own specific experiences and beliefs.

Which means when they finally come to a conclusion, they will have done so based on thoughts and pictures in their own brain, rather than thoughts put there by you.

Naturally, this takes a lot of practice, as there are plenty of different language patterns, and virtually endless combinations. Similar to learning a martial art, there’s tons of single moves to learn, and tons of ways to use them in various combinations.

But there is one thing that will make it much smoother.

It leverages the same process, but on a much deeper level.

Whenever you intend to persuade somebody, you’ve got to have rapport. This is the most crucial, and often overlooked aspect. Since it seems so simple, most people feel they don’t need to really focus on it.

Which means they’re done before they start.

But with enough rapport, you don’t really need much else.

Do Best Friends For Life Need Language Patterns?

Who Do YOU Trust The Most?

Consider somebody, now, as you read this. Somebody you totally trust. Somebody you’ve known for a long, long time. Somebody you’d turn to if you needed to bury some bodies.

Now, consider them suggesting something to you. Would they need to do a lot of convincing? Probably not. Would they need to use all kinds of language patterns and influence techniques? Probably not.

Because you have such a HUGE amount of rapport with this person, they don’t really need to explain themselves.

Now, imagine if you could create this amount of rapport in people that you’d just met. Anything you wanted to talk to them about would be much easier, and much more natural, and much less dependent on “technology.”

How do you create such rapport?

By building a powerfully attractive frame. The strong dominant and charismatic frame that will get people WANTING to be in rapport with you. The kind of frame that when people look at you, they’ll think, “Wow, I wish I was hanging out with THAT person!”

How can you get this? Easy. From the inside out.

Learn How:

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How To Leverage Ancient Human Instincts

Embrace Your Nature

One of the biggest problems we humans have is that we still think like cavemen.

According to biologists, humans and chimps split off from a common ancestor 2 MILLION years ago. Which means whatever behaviors chimps have that we also have are AT LEAST 2 million years old.

Likely one of the most real and pesky hunter-gatherer hangover is our relentless desire to eat.

Our caveman brains don’t know there’s a 7-11 every two feet. It still thinks food is few and far between. So when an opportunity presents itself, we eat like there’s no tomorrow.

This strategy worked GREAT for cave-people. Because they really didn’t know where their next meal was coming from.

Now? Not so much.

Another holdover from our ancient history is our tendency to self categorize ourselves into groups based on some kind of hierarchy.

They’ve done this experiment again and again. They take a bunch of random people, and stick them in some isolated location. It doesn’t take long for a leader to emerge.

Unconscious Alignment

Now, how do they determine a leader? It’s not like on TV where they have discussions and vote.

Everybody just kind of assumes their roles, which is either “follower” or “leader.”

They just kind of look out, take a quick inventory of everybody around them, and kind of “feel out” who’s strong, and who’s not.

It’s very similar to that goofy card game where you pick a card, hold it to your forehead without looking at it.

Everybody tries to guess their own worth, compared to everybody else, based on the cards that others have.

If you look out into the group of strangers, and feel that YOU are the strongest, you’ll naturally start to act like a leader, and they’ll naturally start to follow.

This won’t require any shouting or chest thumping. It’s very natural, and everybody generally agrees pretty quickly AND pretty subconsciously, who’s who.

Now, here’s the important part. The more situations where YOU become the natural leader, the more opportunities you’ll have.

People will agree with you. People will offer to help you. People will naturally support you when you get into trouble.

People will even fight your battles for you to prove their loyalty.

There’s nothing fishy or manipulative going on here. This is purely subconscious, purely natural, and completely voluntary.

The truth is that most people would rather be followers. People are generally too afraid to leave the pack, even if to lead it.

If you’d like lead the pack, check this out:

Frame Control

How To Become The Definition Of Charisma

The Supremes Know What’s Up

“I don’t know what it is, but I know it when I see it.”

That’s what one member of the supreme court said many years ago when trying to define “pornography.”

Many things are like that. We’re hard pressed to define them, but we certainly know it when we see it.

Some of these are subjective, some of these are objective.

Taste in food is more on the subjective side. You can’t really describe what “delicious” means to you, but you certainly know it when you taste it. And everybody has their own unique classifications of delicious.

Beauty leans more on the objective side. Most people would agree that certain paintings, landscapes, or yes, even people, are beautiful, while others are not.

Charisma and social magnetism are like that as well. It’s really hard to define what it is, without describing the feeling that comes from seeing somebody that is incredibly charismatic and magnetic.

Tale From The Temple

I was once at this open house at a local Buddhist temple, and there were plenty of local folks there. They had it set up so you could just wander around, look at stuff, and ask questions.

We were all in this big room, kind of doing our own thing, and this “guy” came walking in. All of us stopped what we were doing, and turned to look at this “guy.”

He had a certain “energy” about him. He was tall, good looking, and had pretty good posture. His movements were slow and purposeful. There didn’t seem to be any fear or anxiety or worry. Like he knew where he was going and was very aware of his surroundings, including all the people that were covertly watching his every step.

Like he felt totally comfortable in his own skin, totally at home wherever he was. As if it was the most important place on Earth or event in time. Total focus, presence and congruence.

As he got closer, I noticed he was wearing a name tag. Turned out he was the mayor. A mayor of a town famous for it’s ultra rich people.

Now, did he have charisma because he was mayor, or was he mayor because of his charisma?

I suspect it was both. Certainly, being in a position of power and surrounded by people who recognize that power will certainly give you a confidence boost.

But you can’t get there unless you’ve got the confidence to begin with.

Many people assume that having such massive charisma and magnetism is like being born tall or super athletic. You’ve either got it or you don’t.

They’re wrong.

You CAN build in that confidence, that charisma. So YOU can be the one walking in the room and turning heads.

Learn How:

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The Persuasive Power of Silence

Keeping Quiet Is A Great Strategy For Powerful Influence

Bite Your Tongue!

There’s an old rule of negotiation.

Whoever speaks first, usually loses out.

Salespeople are taught this, as well as savvy customers.

If somebody makes you an offer, the best response is no response. Maybe a completely neutral “hmm…” while you pretend to wonder about it.

The “trick” is to make it look like you want the deal less than the other person. Once they start to get nervous, and their imagination runs away, it’s all over. You may start out completely even, but the simple strategy of staying silent is incredibly powerful.

This is true not only in sales, but in all “transactions.” When you get right down to it, every human interaction is based on some kind of transaction. Even if you invite your buddies over to watch TV or play video games, that’s going to take some effort on their part. Which means it’s your job to convince them the fun they’ll have is going to be worth the effort.

Everybody Is Working Some Kind of Angle!

Persuasion Is Everywhere

Now, most of us don’t go around negotiating deals with our friends like we’re buying used cars, but the same structure is there.

Whenever you find yourself saying something like, “C’mon! It will be fun!” you’re trying to persuade somebody.

You can try this with your friends, just to play around. Next time they “make an offer,” even if it’s simple like grabbing a beer or whatever, just repeat of the offer without any emotion.

“Hey, wanna go grab a beer down at the pub?”

“Grab a beer. Hmm…”

And see what they say. Chances are whatever they say next will be intended to INCREASE the subjective value of their proposition. Obviously, you don’t want to carry this too far, otherwise you’ll lose all your friends. And when doing this with friends, always be playful. But it’s a useful exercise just to see that this structure really IS everywhere.

Whenever two people are negotiation, whoever wants the deal the LEAST will have the most power.

Dating, job interviewing, sales, everything.

Now, if you’ve been unemployed for a year, and you haven’t been with anybody romantically for a long, long time, it can be tough to “hold out” as if you’ve got a Plan B, Plan C and Plan D.

The secret is to develop a rock solid belief that you’ll be OK, no matter what happens.

Even when there’s no evidence.

This is something very few people are able to do.

But when you do develop this mindset, a “switch” will happen. Instead of you chasing others down, people will be chasing you down. You’ll be the person that everybody is trying to convince.

You’ll be the one with all the power.

Get Started:

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Eleven Easy Ways To Keep A Conversation Going With A Girl

You Made A Move – Now What?

So you made a move, and now you’re talking to her. Great job! You’ve done what most guys are terrified to do. But now something else happens. Those uncomfortable silences.

She answers one of your questions, or you say something hoping she’ll respond, and now she’s just staring at you, waiting for you to say something.

Brain Freeze!

This sucks. Really sucks. Really majorly sucks. But don’t worry, it’s easy to fix. There’s some great tricks you can learn that will keep a conversation going with anybody, especially that gorgeous girl you’re talking to.

Open Ended Questions

It’s always better to ask questions that will take long sentences to answer, rather than short words. Nobody likes to feel like they are being interrogated. Avoid asking questions that can be answered with one or two words.

Instead, asks questions that take some thought, and longer responses. However, be careful that you don’t put her on the spot, or ask any questions that might make her feel defensive. For example, if you ask her what she does for a living, or what she’s studying in school, follow up with some questions like this:

How Did You Get Into That?
What Would You Like To Be Doing In A Couple Years?
Have You Always Been Interested In That?

Look For Similarities

Always keep your ears peeled for anything that you’ve got in common. But avoid being overly vague. If she says she likes movies, don’t say you like movies too and think she’s going to be impressed.

On the other hand, if she’s having trouble choosing a major, and you are too, then say you are, and explain why. Or if she doesn’t really like her job and is looking for another one, chances are you are too.

Pay Attention To “Trance Words”

Trance words are any words or phrases she uses that she puts special emphasis on. What you’re looking for at this point are things she’s really interested in. Things that make her animated and excited. The ideal situation is to find a few things she really likes talking about that you genuinely like as well.

Tell Engaging Stories

The truth about having conversations with strangers is that unless you really “click” right off the bat, most people are going to have a hard time. Everybody’s nervous, and hoping the other person is going to do all the talking.

That’s why it’s a good idea to do most of the heavy lifting, at least in the beginning.

Then later on, after you’ve had a few conversations, you can start to lay back a bit and let her do more of the talking. But at first, realize that you should at least be able to fill in the blanks when she comes up blank.

A fantastic way to do that is to tell stores. The good news is these can be about anything. Really, anything. Stupid boring stuff that happened on your way to work. Some old lady you saw picking her nose in the park, or your boss walking down the hall with a string of toilet paper on his shoe.

The real secret of telling interesting stories is HOW you tell them, not WHAT you talk about.

Be Prepared

To start off with, you should have a few simple stories up your sleeve. If they cover a wide range of emotions, that’s even better. You don’t need to practice, since these actually happened to you, just have a few stories you can pull out when you need to.

Be Energetic

When telling stories, be excited. Use a wide range of facial expressions. Don’t afraid to use gestures. Wanna know why people love little kids? Because they are so expressive. Not reserved. Not edgy or “cool” or filled with fake angst.

If you are the same way when telling stories, she’ll be into you.

Pay Attention To Story Structure

In any story, there should be a buildup, a moment of ultimate tension, the climax, and the release. This is true of epic Hollywood productions as much as a two minute story about how you lost your left shoe.

Understanding where these points are in your own stories will help.

A lot.

One thing that will definitely increase her interest in you is how you shift from story to story. If you start one story, finish it, and then go on to the next one, she’ll get pretty bored, pretty quickly.

On the other hand, if you switch from story A to story B, just as story A is about to get good, she’ll be really into you.

Why?

The human brain HATES unfinished business. So when you leave a bunch of “open loops” she won’t help getting more and more interested in you.

This does take some practice, but it’s easy to practice with some buddies or even by yourself when you’re out driving around.

(Or you could go down to your local mall and stand there alone in the food court practicing your story telling, and see how long it takes you to get arrested!)

You’ll also notice that this technique is used by some the best comedians in the world. When you think about it, the stuff they talk about is pretty common, everyday stuff. It’s how they structure that common, everyday stuff that makes them so entertaining.

How You Break Up The Stories Are Crucial

How to Break Up The Stories

The best way to break up loops is to always have a couple that are “open” at any given time. Meaning start story A, then break off into story B. Then halfway through B, start off with C, then finish up A, and then start on D, and halfway through D, start on E, and then finish up B, etc.

If you do this while smiling and having fun, she’ll literally NEVER forget you, even if you’re talking about doing your laundry. She’ll most definitely be interested in you!

Her Ideal Future

Whenever you’re going back and forth, it’s a great idea to get her talking about the things she likes, as mentioned before. It’s an even better idea to get her talking in terms of her ideal future. Her biggest dreams and goals.

Like if she’s studying biology in school, ask her if her plans played out perfectly, and she got the perfect job, what would her life look like in five years.

This way, she’ll be talking about her big dreams, while looking at you. That’s pretty good!

No Spots

While the idea of “cocky and funny” can be used effectively, it’s easy to go too far. Just pay close attention to her mood, and avoid saying anything that will make her want to go and talk to somebody else.

Also, avoid asking any questions where any potential answer might make her feel uncomfortable. Remember, this is a first conversation, and she’s using this conversation to form a first impression of you. And since first impressions are hard to change, you want to start off on the right foot.

Don’t Be Afraid To Disagree

However, you don’t want to be TOO nice. This will also make her want to talk to somebody else. While you’re looking for things you have in common, you should also be looking for opportunities to disagree.

If all you say is “Hey, me too!” she’s going to think you’re pretty fake. But if you take the opportunity to disagree, and tell her why, she’ll know you’re for real.

Bottom Line

Walk up, break the ice, and start talking. Ask some open ended questions. Look for positive answers that make her feel good, and ask for more information. Tell stories with lots of facial expressions and gestures. Break them up a bit to keep her on her toes. Don’t be afraid to mix it up a bit and disagree.

And remember the most important rule of all:

There’s PLENTY of girls out there. Relax, have fun, and see each and every girl as a simple opportunity to enjoy life and have some fun. Not a life or death situation.

If YOU enjoy the conversation, chances are so will she.

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