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What Do Rich People Have?

How’d They Get There?

What’s the difference between the rich and the poor?

I mean besides a stack of money vs. a stack of bills?

An interesting study was done recently, in which they interviewed a bunch of rich people, and a bunch of poor people, to find any differences in their daily habits.

You Could See This Coming

The differences were clear, and what you would expect.

Rich people ate healthy food, poor people ate fast food or junk food.

Rich people watched less than an hour of TV day, while poor people watched 4 hours or more.

Rich people read at least two non-fiction books a month, poor people rarely read.

Rich people spent part of their income, AND part of their time on charitable activities, poor people didn’t.

Rich people spent a great deal of time doing and learning things that would improve themselves, while poor people didn’t.

Rich people took responsibility, poor people blamed others.

But My Situation Is Different!

Now, there’s plenty of poor people who are poor through absolutely NO fault of their own. Born into the wrong family, or the wrong part of the world, or under the wrong government or economic system would be enough to keep ANYBODY poor.

But even if you’re in a bad situation, taking responsibility is ALWAYS much more useful than blaming others, EVEN IF it’s THEIR FAULT.

Why?

You Are All You’ve Got!

Because NOBODY cares about YOU like YOU care about YOU. Meaning even IF you blame others, and it IS their fault, they won’t likely do much.

On the other hand, if you look at your own situation, and forget about trying to shun responsibility and give yourself a good, long, hard look in the mirror, and ask yourself, “Well, what am I going to do about this?”

You have a much, much better chance of succeeding than somebody who’s ALWAYS pointing fingers.

Continuous Improvement

One CRUCIAL part of that study (at least for me) was that wealthy folks KNOW they’ve ALWAYS got to improve themselves. Even after they’ve made their millions, (or billions, as the case may be) they KNOW it’s crucial to ALWAYS learn more.

Here’s another part of the study that struck me. Sixty Percent of millionaires and billionaires are SELF MADE.

Not From Daddy

They started broke, and through sheer willpower, and relentless forward momentum, they made themselves rich.

They can do it, YOU can do it.

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Do You Own Your Brain Or Have You Given It Away?

School Sucks

The great tragedy of learning is that we associate it with school.

Unfortunately, the setting and the topics we study in school aren’t necessarily the best for us.

For one reason, school was created around the beginning of the industrial revolution, when most people were destined to work in factories. So the kind of stuff they taught was for people who were going to be working on some kind of assembly line, or doing some kind of repetitive work.

Human Assembly Line

Another reason it’s not nearly as efficient is that it’s designed to teach a whole roomful of people the same thing, at the same time, at the same speed.

Needless to say, everybody learns at different rates, and different ways.

Now, some people learn great in that environment. But some people don’t. And those that don’t are sometimes much more creative and intuitive than others.

The very same kind of folks society depends on to come up with new inventions and ideas and concepts to help us move forward.

Stone Age School System

Ever wonder why medicine has progressed so much in the last hundred years, science has grown by leaps and bounds, and technology is doubling in power every few years, yet school is the same as it was a hundred years ago?

Sure, the tools may be a little improved, but the method is still the same.

Of course, this makes it all incredibly easy to “blame” the “system” for not having what we want, but in the end, WE are responsible for what WE’VE got.

Nobody else.

It’s On You To Learn

If you want to learn something that will help you succeed in life, that’s up to YOU.

Luckily, you ARE a natural learner. You have everything you need to unleash your creative genius and let loose that awesome ideas you’ve got inside you.

You CAN teach yourself to soak up all the information you need to become a super-achiever.

Own your brain. Take responsibility. Create the life you want.

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One Skill To Rule Them All

Parachute Or Row Boat?

There’s lots of mind experiments where you are going to some imaginary place and you’ve got to choose from a collection of tools.

These are similar to those psychology questions, where you’re in a boat with a dog and your best friend, or some other combination, and you’ve got to decide who lives and who gets thrown overboard.

What Does That Really Mean?

Psychologists love these types of questions, because they supposedly give insight into your personality or something.

But in reality, those situations rarely present themselves. You never will find yourself in a life raft with the Pope and Einstein and only enough food for two people.

But you WILL find yourself in your day to day life, being faced with decisions and choices that are much more subtle, and potentially much more life-alterning than any philosophical discussion.

Like should I choose “this” job, or choose “that” job?

Should I keep trying this particular project, even though it hasn’t shown any progress, or should I ditch it and start something else?

Should I Stay Or Should I Go

Should I go over and talk to that person, who seems interesting for some reason, or should I stay here where it’s safe?

What makes these decisions potentially difficult is the only person who notices them is YOU.

Meaning nobody is standing there, clearly specifying everything and all the parameters.

All You Baby

In fact, most of the time, there ARE no parameters. There’s only YOU, your world around you, and YOUR decisions.

The truth is that how you operate within the world on a day to day basis will have a HUGE impact on the quality of your life.

Most people are TERRIFIED to admit this, as we humans are prone to point fingers at anybody except ourselves.

But once you accept this fact of life, you’ll gain an incredible amount of power.

Risk Is Safety

And you’ll realize that no matter what you’ve accomplished, no matter what you want to accomplish, you can get more, get better, and improve almost any aspect of your life.

Once you give up the false security of dependency, you can REALLY embrace your own power.

Of course, the most powerful resource you have is your brain. Your thinking, creativity, and perception, so you can look at the world around you, and see all of the opportunities that are just waiting for you to take advantage of them.

The more you can utilize your incredible brain, the more you’ll succeed.

The sooner you start, the more you’ll get.

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Secrets For A Powerful Frame And Mad Game

Win Friends and Influence Girls to Desire You

We Know It’s Important

Most guys understand the necessity of “frame control.”

This simply means to hold on to your intention, your outcome, regardless of what happens.

When you approach anybody (girl or not) and you somehow ditch YOUR outcome and start to help THEM get THEIR outcome, you’ve lost the frame.

Sadly, most guys don’t have a strong frame, or ANY frame to begin with. They walk over, and their only REAL intention is to not get rejected.

Well, if you sit there and NOT approach, you’re NOT going to get rejected!

The Goldilocks Approach

On the other hand, if you set too strong of an intention, it’s going to be tough, and you’re going to need some SUPER HUMAN frame skills to get it done.

Let’s assume that you’re intention is to get laid, that night, by the girl you’re approaching. Now, this may sound good when you say it out loud, and it may make you seem like a super dooper alpha to your buddies, but it’s not usually a good idea (unless you’re some kind of rock star).

I know there are some that claim with strong enough “game” you can seduce ANYBODY.

Ditch The Myths

And, to an extent, that’s true. That WILL require that you be super rich, super famous, and have a HUGE posse of ultra hot women as your wing-ladies.

But most mortal men don’t have such a strong “game.”

Which means if you’re intention is to get laid, you’re going to NOT achieve your outcome quite often.

Which means you’ll be building up a LOT of experience in LOSING YOUR FRAME.

Remember, the most important thing is to develop a strong frame.

Underlying Secrets Of Success

This, more than anything else, will help you get whatever you want in life.

So, instead of holding an intention of getting laid, choose something easier. In metaphysics, they teach people to add “or better” to their affirmations or intentions. So if you were to say “I want a job earning 50K a year,” a better way would be “I want a job earning 50K a year or better.”

With setting a frame, the same rule applies.

Hold the intention of getting a nice smile, some nice eye contact, OR BETTER.

Slow And Steady Wins Any Race

You MUST consider it a WIN if you get a nice smile and some eye contact.

Do this, achieve your outcome, and you will definitely build up a MASSIVELY STRONG frame in a hurry.

This will not only KILL anxiety, but it will make you much, much more attractive.

Girls will look at you and you will radiate the energy of a guy who gets what he wants.

One thing that will help dramatically is increasing your social intelligence, so you’ll be able to read the situation much easier.

This will give YOU a set of skills most guys don’t even know exists.

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How Make Your Brain More Flexible For Super Sonic Genius

The Human Advantage

One of the reasons that humans have come so far is our flexibility.

For starters, evolutionary scientists believe that it was our sexual division of labor that gave us a head start.

If you look at every other mammal, both males and females collect the same type of food in the same type of way.

But humans were different. The males started hunting, looking for protein. The females started gathering, looking for roots, nuts, etc. Looking for vitamins, fiber, carbs, etc.

Diversity Is Strength

This meant they could live in twice as many places. If humans ONLY were able to eat meat, we would have been stuck living wherever animals lived. But since we could survive a while without either meat or fiber and vitamins, etc, we could live pretty much anywhere.

Then we figured out how to make clothes. This gave us even more flexibility. Super hot places, super cold places, super high places, there weren’t too many places on Earth where humans could live.

Clearly, our flexibility is a HUGE advantage.

On an individual level, flexibility is also a HUGE advantage. Everybody’s got desires, wants and needs.

Be Flexible With Flexibility

But those who can fulfill those desires in many different ways have a MUCH better chance of getting them fulfilled, MUCH quicker. If you’ve only got one or two ways to get what you want, and you get shut down, there’s not much you can do.

But if you’ve got a TON of different ideas to get what you want, no matter WHAT happens, you’ll always be getting closer. You’ll always be satisfying your desires, and then creating even bigger ones.

Choose Your Life

That’s when you REALLY start to feel “on purpose.” You WON’T be at the mercy of others, you’ll be in complete control. This doesn’t mean you will be in complete control over the reality around you, but you’ll be in complete control over your own destiny, since you’ve got a clear target, and you’ve got PLENTY of ways to get there.

Unfortunately, most of us have this flexibility hammered out of us when we finish school. Usually it’s gone by the time we finish junior high school.

Luckily, there’s an easy way to get it back. Before long, you’ll be back on track, looking at those HUGE desires, wants and needs with a positive expectation that few people EVER feel.

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How To Practice With Girls And Improve Your Skills

Way, way back in the old days, you had to learn through apprenticeship.

Meaning before schools were ever invented, if you wanted to learn a trade, you had to find somebody that was already successful in that trade, and who would take you on as an apprentice.

And often times, these “apprenticeships” lasted years. It served a lot of purposes. One was to make sure you were really trained in the field. Another was to limit the amount of people entering into the field. Another was to preserve whatever “traditions” were associated with that field.

Learning By Doing

Of course, all of these trades were hands-on, skill dependent. Artists, plumbers, welders, etc.

It took a long, long time before you “entered” the profession before you were considered a “master” of the profession.

This was GREAT for customers, because they KNEW that any person they hired would know what they were doing, after having spent decades perfecting their craft.

What’s this got to do with seduction and getting girls?

Everything!

See, most guys have been conned by slick talking marketers that there’s some secret “method” or magic set of words that will get any girl in your bed.

Always Expand Your Skills

As if picking up a girl is like baking a cake, where all you need to is learn the right steps in the right order, and expect them to work every time.

The truth is that EVERY SINGLE GIRL is different. One “line” make work like magic on one girl, but fall flat on the girl sitting right next to her.

That shirt you wore last weekend may make you look like a stud to one girl, but may make you look like a geek to another girl.

Constantly Evolving

The HARSH truth about LIFE, (and seduction) is that there really isn’t any one-size-fits-all strategy.

Even those old school artisans took YEARS to learn their craft, and they were operating on inanimate objects, or animals.

But if you are intending to “operate” on others, it’s going to take a lot longer than a weekend seminar to get proficient.

The ONLY thing that will help you is YOUR OWN experience. The more girls you talk to, the more experience you’ll have, and the more stuff you’ll be able to think up IN THE MOMENT.

Think On Your Feet

The more flexible you are IN THE MOMENT, the more attractive you’ll be.

Consider talking to girls as ALWAYS part of your “apprenticeship” of life.

Since it’s only practice, there’s really nothing to lose. Just have some fun, gain some experience, and increase your skills.

It will help A LOT if you turn on your natural learner, so you can learn even more.

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Are You A Worker Bee?

I love reading about history.

The story of the developments of various society is pretty fascinating. Who did what, why what armies attacked what cities, strategies that worked, strategies that didn’t work.

Once I bought this HUGE book that was filled with historical timelines all the way back to the beginning.

My friend thought I was nuts, as the book was about fifty bucks.

Everywhere Tells A Tale

However, choosing a point on the globe, and then starting back at the dawn of history, and getting all the important events on an easy to read timeline was pretty cool. You got all the good stuff, without having to wade through all the boring stuff.

In school, though, history was the subject I absolutely HATED.

Incredibly boring, AND it was right after lunch, where I had to struggle just to stay awake, let alone pay attention.

Context Is Everything

It’s interesting how the very same subject, as taught in school, is so boring I’d rather dig a ditch with a spoon, but as an adult I find it fascinating.

It’s as if they did everything in their power to make school as painful as possible. Like the teachers sit around in their teacher meetings and make sure their lessons are as mind numbingly boring as possible.

Most of us associate “learning” with school, but if you’re honest, the most important lessons you’ve ever learned in life came OUTSIDE of school.

Life lessons. Money lessons. Relationship lessons. Health lessons. Love lessons.

Lifelong Learning

The truth is that you ARE a natural learner. The purpose of school was NOT to educate you, but to turn you into a conformist factor worker. A worker bee. A drone.

Once you free yourself from the shackles of that old mindset, and realize how intelligent you are, and how much of a natural learner you are, you’ll come to a startling conclusion.

YOU can learn ANYTHING.

Any skill, any collection of information, any category of knowledge, any behavior.

Anything.

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