Obliterate All Fear
However, you MUST understand one thing. The girls you use this “trick” on are NOT girls you are going to try and pick up.
They are only “practice” girls.
This means when you see a girl for the first time, and you’ve exchanged some IOI’s, you’ve got to decide BEFORE you go over there which category she’s in, and STICK to that decision.
Most guys CANNOT do this. They see a girl, and go over there and try anything and everything to get as far as they can, and either get her number, and leave (usually because SHE says she’s got to go or something) or they get blown out. (Which is when SHE says she’s got to go or something).
However, if you follow this strategy, you WILL see positive results.
So, assume you see a girl, and you decide she’s “practice.” Meaning you WILL NOT ask for her contact information or even suggest getting together. You won’t even tell her that you’re not going to ask for her number.
This is what you do.
You walk over and break the ice. Say something that paces the situation. Say you noticed her, you noticed something she did (actually say the thing she did) and then tell her you wanted to find out more about her, because she seemed interesting.
(All of this is absolutely true, by the way.)
Then ask her name. Ask what she does. Ask open ended questions about anything she seems willing to tell you about. The idea, the goal, the intention, the mission, is to get her to smile while she’s talking to you about things she likes.
Once you get a few smiles, say thanks, and then LEAVE.
Don’t hesitate. Don’t linger. Don’t wait around for her to tell you what a genius alpha male you are or how clever you are.
LEAVE.
Remember, this is ONLY a confidence building exercise.
If you do this two or three times a week, your self confidence around women will SOAR.
But ONLY if you stick to the plan. The ENTIRE plan.
Wait…wait…wait…
What if she asks for YOUR number?
DO NOT GIVE IT TO HER.
Say something like, “Wow, I’m really flattered, but I’m not ready for a relationship or dating or anything right now.”
Right now, of course, meaning that very moment. You may be ready in another hour or so with another girl, but DO NOT tell her than.
This will build up a HUGE and POWERFUL belief in your brain that says this:
“Girls like me. Girls like talking to me. Girls want to talk to me more than I want to talk to them. Girls want me to stick around after I talk to them. Girls actually try to chase me.”
Do this a few times, and when you see a girl that’s NOT practice, it will be much, much easier.