When I was a kid I was insanely curious.
As most kids are.
I broke a lot of stuff, just trying to figure out how it worked.
Being curious is a good trait to have.
But, you may say, “curiosity killed the cat!”
Sure, you can be TOO curious. Meaning you don’t know when to quit.
I ran into a morbid website the other day. Pictures of people just before they died.
How did they die?
By taking selfies.
In really messed up places.
It’s important to take risks. But if you take the WRONG risks, or too many risks, then you will end up dead sooner than you should be.
However, many people tend to take TOO FEW risks.
And that is the worst risk of all. Because if you are too risk averse, you’ll end up being USED by other people, or at least by circumstances.
Because if you NEVER take a risk, and ALWAYS play it safe, you’ll largely be dependent on others, or society, or the government, or the gods, or luck.
But the good news is that it’s pretty IMPOSSIBLE to take action, without a little bit of risk.
Nothing you do is certain. If anything WERE certain, that would mean you could predict the future.
And nobody can do that.
The trick (or skill if you prefer) is to always look for BALANCE.
The right amount of risk, balanced with the right amount of caution.
The right amount of curiosity, with the right amount of awareness.
It’s easy to get “stuck” in extreme view points.
But the magic is in the middle. Where the balance is.
Where you’re on the edge of your current level of skill. When you’re just straddling the outside edges of your comfort zone.
Not hiding in the middle, nor blasting away without a second thought. But slowly, carefully and courageously expanding it.
Once upon a time there was a kid, who wanted to become the best jumper in the world.
So he asked his local martial arts guru what to do. The guru planted a little sapling.
And said, “Every day, jump over this.” And left.
He came back ten years later, and that “kid” was now leaping over a huge oak tree.
All you’ve got to do is choose SOMETHING. Something small. Half risky, half safe. Half curiosity, half knowing.
And SLOWLY push out the limits of what you can do.
If you did that with your brain, imagine the life you could be building.
Instead of waiting around hoping for something to “happen,” like most people do.