The other night I watched the movie “Jumper” on Netflix.
About this kid that learned he could teleport himself everywhere.
Didn’t take him long to start showing up inside bank vaults, taking stacks of cash, and then going back home.
There’s another TV show about these ambulance drivers. One episode they were talking about the coolest superpower to have.
They all ended up choosing the superpower they thought would help them get laid.
There’s this interesting primate called the Bonobo.
One thing they do is have a lot of sex.
Everybody is pretty much nailing everybody else all the time.
They find a new grove of trees, they have an orgy to celebrate.
I recently read a book that suggested the main reason for our human intelligence was a tool to get laid.
It’s our own version of the Peacock’s tail.
If you could choose a super power, which super power would you choose?
The very first book every written about NLP was called “The Structure of Magic.”
It related Noam Chomsky’s theory of transformational grammar to the idea of “surface structure” vs. “deep structure.”
What we say and pay attention to is the surface structure.
But what we respond to is the deep structure.
When you learn how to “speak” NLP, you can speak and understand both.
Which means you’ll no longer be limited to seeing ONLY the surface structure of people’s communication.
You’ll know what they mean, know what they want, and what they are afraid of.
And when you can communicate at that level as well, that’s about as close to a super power as you’re going to get.
Funny thing about NLP is it’s usually taught as some kind of “once and done” type of deal.
Go to a seminar, have a bunch of stuff “installed” and then suddenly you’re “trained” in NLP.
Suppose you went to a basketball camp and thought you were “trained” in basketball?
What would happen if you went down the playground and tried some pickup ball?
Do you think it would help if you brought your “basketball practitioner” certificate?
If you want to get better at a skill, there’s two essential ingredients.
You’ve got to know how to do the skill in the first place.
AND you’ve got to practice.
How much practice would it take before you could stroll onto a basketball court anywhere in the country and hold your own?
How much practice would it take to become a black belt in your preferred martial art?
How much practice would it take to become fluent in a foreign language?
But here’s the good news.
Since so few people take time to practice ANYTHING related to NLP, most people couldn’t NLP their way out of a paper bag.
So when YOU start putting in the practice, your language will be YOUR superpower.
And it will get you all the things superpowers do.