They say girls like a guy with “confidence.”
But what the heck does this mean?
First of all, there are plenty of kinds of confidence.
You might be VERY confident that you can make a cheese sandwich, but very UN-confident that you can play Beethoven on the piano.
Some people say you need to be confident around people.
That’s better than making a cheese sandwich (at least from her eyes) but it’s not quite the whole story.
Plenty people are VERY confident around their buddies, but freeze up around strangers.
So maybe being confident around strangers is what they mean.
Some salespeople are EXTREMELY confident since they talk to strangers all day, but they can’t get a girl’s number to save their life.
Now we’re getting closer.
The “confidence” they mean when they say “girls like a guy with confidence” is the confidence to talk COMFORTABLY to girls.
Not just her, but ALL girls.
Girls SAY they like guys with confidence.
But they are also INSANELY attracted to guys who are confident not just with her, but with ALL GIRLS.
If you’re ONLY confident with her, but collapse into a pile of mush around other girls, you won’t be a challenge to her. She’ll feel like she “has” you, and this will kill her attraction.
So when she sees you confident talking to ALL girls, she KNOWS she’s got to work to get you.
And this makes her VERY attracted to you, whether she likes it or not.
So, the million dollar question:
How, exactly, do you GET confident with all girls?
There’s a pretty easy way to practice. To ease your way there. To become INSANELY confident with ALL girls without EVER leaving your comfort zone.