Economics Of Seduction
Of course, nothing is random, despite the plethora of metaphors indicating otherwise.
What makes this even more difficult, is that both of these elements are operating unconsciously, in everybody. So it could very well be that yours are messed up and you don’t even know it.
The trick is to elevate them to the conscious level, make sure everything’s in good working order, and then drop them back down to the unconscious level, so you can get back to having fun.
The first is criteria. You’ve got to know what you want in a woman. You’ve also got to know what you don’t want. Most guys have the first one, but not the second one. And even then it’s pretty basic. Like she’s got to be hot, and she’s got to like him.
However, as you well know, super hot girls can also be super crazy girls. If your only criteria is how she looks, you may be in for some trouble. So you’ll need to put in some time to figure out what you want.
The next idea to consider is your own exchange value. Now, most guys think that just because they’ve read a few articles about game online, that they are super bomb alphas and deserve the hottest girls on planet Earth.
Generally, that’s not the case.
The harsh truth is that most PEOPLE (girls and guys) severely overestimate their value.
Think of it this way. Do you think quality girls are hard to find? Or, if you’re a woman, do you think quality men are hard to find?
Well consider this harsh slap of truth to the face.
If YOU were high quality, high quality partners wouldn’t be hard to find.
Think of it this way. If you went down to your local flea market, with a couple grand stuffed in your pockets, would you have any trouble finding good things to buy? Nope.
On the other hand, if all you had were a couple of nickels, you’d complain that there was NOTHING of value there. That it was all over-priced garbage.
Well, I hate to break it to you, but if you’re having trouble finding quality mates, take a good hard look in the mirror.
How can you improve yourself? Develop social skills. Improve confidence, let those “tests” easily roll off your back without worrying about them. Have some faith in yourself, and in your life.
Refine your criteria, and refine what you’ve got to offer, and you’ll be fine.