If everybody can do something, that something is not worth a lot.
The economics of supply and demand is pretty simple.
If there is a HUGE supply, then the cost is going to be cheap.
Meaning if your only skill is unpacking boxes and putting stuff on shelves, you won’t be worth much to any employer.
Sad, but harshly true.
The world of dating works the same way.
Think of all the girls you know.
Chances are you can easily arrange them into a hierarchy.
The ones at the top are in the most demand.
It’s the same with us guys. When girls think of us, WE are also arranged in a hierarchy.
The guys at the top are in the most demand.
For girls, being at the top means being genetically blessed with beauty.
What about guys?
Fortunately, for us it’s a lot less about looks.
It’s about how she FEELS when she interacts with us.
For guys, it’s still about FEELINGS, but those feelings are what we feel when we LOOK at her.
But for girls, they need to interact with us for a while.
This means it’s largely based on how we TALK to her.
The things we can do to her with our words.
And not just the words, but how we say them.
Most guys don’t have much of a clue.
They try a few things, and hope for the best.
That would be like picking up a violin and randomly playing strings, and hoping music comes out.
Usually it doesn’t work.
But if you have some music, and some instructions on how to play, you can make some pretty sweet sounds.
And since most guys are too lazy to learn, you’ll be the only one making beautiful music while every other goof sounds like a dying cat.